Well, hello again our faithful readers!
Again it's been quite some time since an update for which we apoloize.
The news as of yesterday is that dad still had the blood clot in his left leg. Please be praying that disovles soon! He is done wiht chemo and doesn't have to worry about an appointment with the chemo doctor til Feb 21... Feb 18th he will have another CT Scan and on the 20th more blood tests!
He is still getting his blood tested twice a week to check the thinkness and try and more the clot out.
Mom and dad have both appreciated the visits and calls that they have had recently. Some of the visits from people they haven't seen in quite some time so do call and stop by if you can. They have also had the opportunity to go out and visit others, go for drives... (ask them about the guy that they met at the hospital that told them to go and see all the lights that he had on his house. It's a funny story). They also got to spend time with the cousins. Lots of mom's cousin live in the area and they get together monthly at for lunch monthly i think. they always have a good time when they can go!!!
But yeah you're prayers for that blood clot to move/deisolve as well as continued ained strength would be greatly apprieciated!
With that I guess that I will sign off. Feel free to leave a message here, give mom and dad a call or stop in for a visit!
Thanks again for you're thoughts and prayers,And just incase I'm not back on here or i forget... Merry Christmas! May your holidays have times of fun, rest, and relaions with friends family and food!!!... just enough of all!! Blessings, your prayers and friendships have been and are are muchly appreicated.
Amy
for all of us!!!
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
Friday, November 16, 2007
No news is good news?
hello all that still read this page.
We are still all here and acounted for. Life just seems to have gotten really busy.
Dad is doing okay. He's had a blood clot that seems to have disapated... so that's good. From having to be still and have his leg up because of the clot he got a touch of pnemomia which had them to the emergancy room last week. The doctor that they say there was very thorough and sent dad for x-rays and gave him some antibiotics for to clear his lungs.
He has been seeing his doctor twice a week for the last little while so that they can monitor his blood count and it seems to be doing alright.
Dad's had some visitors lately, which he has really appreciated. They both have. They also both appreciate the phone calls as well! If you are wondering if he is welll enough to stop in for a visit, he has been lately... you can always call first or just stop in for a short visit... and don't be offended if he happens to fall asleep while you are there... but as most of you know... he did that at times before all this happened too... he doens't snore too loud... usually!
But yeah that's about all for now!!!
Amy - for the entire gang!
We are still all here and acounted for. Life just seems to have gotten really busy.
Dad is doing okay. He's had a blood clot that seems to have disapated... so that's good. From having to be still and have his leg up because of the clot he got a touch of pnemomia which had them to the emergancy room last week. The doctor that they say there was very thorough and sent dad for x-rays and gave him some antibiotics for to clear his lungs.
He has been seeing his doctor twice a week for the last little while so that they can monitor his blood count and it seems to be doing alright.
Dad's had some visitors lately, which he has really appreciated. They both have. They also both appreciate the phone calls as well! If you are wondering if he is welll enough to stop in for a visit, he has been lately... you can always call first or just stop in for a short visit... and don't be offended if he happens to fall asleep while you are there... but as most of you know... he did that at times before all this happened too... he doens't snore too loud... usually!
But yeah that's about all for now!!!
Amy - for the entire gang!
Friday, October 19, 2007
Just quick
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
some not so exciting news...
But God is in control and He's got different timing... as has been displayed today. Dad was too week to take his last treatment so things are being post-poned 'til next week. He is going to see a new doctor and get another CAT scan. This is a little discouraging for all of us especially dad and mom. They were really looking forward to being done. So next week WEdnesday Dad has appointments all morning and then he should have his treatment at 1430 (2:30pm) so yeah please pray and if you think about it give hem a call or stop by as there spirits are a little low!
thanks again!
amy for us all
thanks again!
amy for us all
this morning's post
October 17, 2007 at 09:35 AM EDT
It's the LAST DAY!!! Praise GOD! Yes, today is Dad's last chemo treatment. It has certainly been a long 10 months, but the day has come. I know that Dad and Mom are both looking forward to not visiting the hospital everyother week, and dad is most certainly looking forward to not feeling so ill. God has been so good to our family over the last year. Without him, our family and friends this past year would have been so much more difficult than it has been. We know that this path is not fully finished yet, but it appears that the truly difficult times are drawing to a close. I'd like to thank everyone who has faithfully read these updates, prayed for us, and stayed connected, either through phone or visits. You all mean so much to all of us, and we thank God for you all daily. Thank you for being "Jesus with skin on" to our family. We love and appreciate you all more than you know! God Bless, Joy
It's the LAST DAY!!! Praise GOD! Yes, today is Dad's last chemo treatment. It has certainly been a long 10 months, but the day has come. I know that Dad and Mom are both looking forward to not visiting the hospital everyother week, and dad is most certainly looking forward to not feeling so ill. God has been so good to our family over the last year. Without him, our family and friends this past year would have been so much more difficult than it has been. We know that this path is not fully finished yet, but it appears that the truly difficult times are drawing to a close. I'd like to thank everyone who has faithfully read these updates, prayed for us, and stayed connected, either through phone or visits. You all mean so much to all of us, and we thank God for you all daily. Thank you for being "Jesus with skin on" to our family. We love and appreciate you all more than you know! God Bless, Joy
Thursday, October 11, 2007
The end is in sight...
Hi guys...
So i think that there was a misunderstanding... I thought mom said that Joy was going to update y'all on how things were going but I see I was mistaken.
Last week as a bit of a hard week as dad had a treatment and his blood was going all wonky... all to do with the thickness of his blood. He was to the doctor and he said the he should go to emergancy the next morning (because all the clinics were closed for Thanksgiving weekend) to get something to fix the problem. The numbers don't mean much to me but maybe some of you understand. So on Friday the number was something like 4.6 -- that is as high as they like it to go. Then by the time he got to the hospital it was up to 6.2 and then eventually it went at high as 9. So they gave him something to lower the number (aka. thicken his blood). On Monday he was feeling quite bad (tired too) so he went and had it checked again and and it was down to 1.2... too think now. So yeah the doctors have been playing with his blood some... you can pray that they get it right!!! Dad wasn't feeling well enough to do a thanksgiving dinner so they just stayed in! They did appreciate the invite out though!!! I'm sure that they will take you up on the offer again sometime soon.
So after last week's chemo trreatment dad has one more to go... it's not this week but next... and then its over. It's been a long haul. Thanks for sticking this out with us... it is greatly appreciated!!! I'll keep you posted as i know more. I think mom said that the last treatment is next Wednesday!
Thanks for your interest and prayers....
For the Crew - Amy
So i think that there was a misunderstanding... I thought mom said that Joy was going to update y'all on how things were going but I see I was mistaken.
Last week as a bit of a hard week as dad had a treatment and his blood was going all wonky... all to do with the thickness of his blood. He was to the doctor and he said the he should go to emergancy the next morning (because all the clinics were closed for Thanksgiving weekend) to get something to fix the problem. The numbers don't mean much to me but maybe some of you understand. So on Friday the number was something like 4.6 -- that is as high as they like it to go. Then by the time he got to the hospital it was up to 6.2 and then eventually it went at high as 9. So they gave him something to lower the number (aka. thicken his blood). On Monday he was feeling quite bad (tired too) so he went and had it checked again and and it was down to 1.2... too think now. So yeah the doctors have been playing with his blood some... you can pray that they get it right!!! Dad wasn't feeling well enough to do a thanksgiving dinner so they just stayed in! They did appreciate the invite out though!!! I'm sure that they will take you up on the offer again sometime soon.
So after last week's chemo trreatment dad has one more to go... it's not this week but next... and then its over. It's been a long haul. Thanks for sticking this out with us... it is greatly appreciated!!! I'll keep you posted as i know more. I think mom said that the last treatment is next Wednesday!
Thanks for your interest and prayers....
For the Crew - Amy
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Hip Pain changes to leg pain....
September 25, 2007 at 07:44 PM EDT
Hello friends,
Mom took Dad to the doctor today for some hip pain that he had been having for the past 2 days. It turns out that dad probably has a blood clot in his hips. The doctor mentioned that it probably formed in the joint. Dad's "rat poisoin" (warafin) has been raised and he is to keep his legs elevated.
Please pray that this clot disolves quickly and does not cause any type of complications. Thank you for your prayers, Dad is SO CLOSE to being done with these chemo treatments and begin his healing process.
I know that he (and the rest of us) are ready for this new phase!!
~Joy - for the whole crew.
Hello friends,
Mom took Dad to the doctor today for some hip pain that he had been having for the past 2 days. It turns out that dad probably has a blood clot in his hips. The doctor mentioned that it probably formed in the joint. Dad's "rat poisoin" (warafin) has been raised and he is to keep his legs elevated.
Please pray that this clot disolves quickly and does not cause any type of complications. Thank you for your prayers, Dad is SO CLOSE to being done with these chemo treatments and begin his healing process.
I know that he (and the rest of us) are ready for this new phase!!
~Joy - for the whole crew.
Thursday, September 20, 2007
We are still out here
Hello all, or at least whoever is still reading this. Thanks for your support and patience with us on these updates. Thanks for hanging in with us as our updates have been few and far between. With Fall, i'm sure Joy's been busy getting back into the routine of kids and well, its been crazy busy with all the fall stuff here! It's like I have 75 kids! But God's been very good... just short 2 teachers and my youth group has more than tripled in size so far from last year!
Dad had the chemo bottle re-attached today. It will be attached until Saturday. The dosage was decreased some and he was not given the iron this time because his blood was still doing okay. He will have to have a needle for his blood count for the next 4 fridays. He will still be taking the warfarin (the one dad affectionately calls "Rat Poison.") He is scheduled to for two more chemo treatments and then he's done.
He was in to see the doctor that did the surgery and last week and said that everything was good and that he was coming along okay!
So thanks so much for your prayers and for journeying with us through all this. We greatly appreiciate it! Mom and Dad have really appreciated the visits from friends and family lately as well as the phone calls!
Thanks!
Specific Prayer Request
Strength and Energy - That this chemo treatment will go well and that it won't be as hard on his body as they have been.
Thanks again!
Amy for the crew!!!
Dad had the chemo bottle re-attached today. It will be attached until Saturday. The dosage was decreased some and he was not given the iron this time because his blood was still doing okay. He will have to have a needle for his blood count for the next 4 fridays. He will still be taking the warfarin (the one dad affectionately calls "Rat Poison.") He is scheduled to for two more chemo treatments and then he's done.
He was in to see the doctor that did the surgery and last week and said that everything was good and that he was coming along okay!
So thanks so much for your prayers and for journeying with us through all this. We greatly appreiciate it! Mom and Dad have really appreciated the visits from friends and family lately as well as the phone calls!
Thanks!
Specific Prayer Request
Strength and Energy - That this chemo treatment will go well and that it won't be as hard on his body as they have been.
Thanks again!
Amy for the crew!!!
Thursday, August 30, 2007
Hello Again
Hello again, Mom and dad got home around 2am and they did all sorts of tests and everything came back clear! Thanks for you prayers! ~ A
Wednesday, August 29, 2007
Just quick
Just quicki just got a call from mom and they were heading to the hospital because dad has a fever... pray they figure out what it is...
I'll let you know when i know!
Thanks!
Amy - for the crew!
I'll let you know when i know!
Thanks!
Amy - for the crew!
Monday, August 20, 2007
Sorry its been so long...
Hello to all who still check this out. Sorry that we have been deliquent in updating this lately. Jared and I just got back from visiting mom and dad.
Dad seemed to be doing quite well. He gets tired easy but his appeitite sure isn't suffering. He's been off chemo for almost a month while the they have been working on thinning the blood clots. Dad feels like a pin cushion as there is a nurse that comes in the morning to take his blood (dad has nicknamed those nurses the vampires. then they test that blood and then in the afternoon another nurse comes and he gets the blood thinner needle in his stomach. Understandablely so dad's feeling like a bit of a pin cusion lately!
Dad was up and about some while we were there. He even tried to mow the lawn. But Jared ended up taking over for that. but he was helping around the house more this last week and they even went out to visit others. So that was good to see. He was spending more time out of his chair in the house and in mom's beautiful backyard.
While we were there there were a good number of visitors and this brightened both mom and dad's day. Thanks for stopping by!
This has all been stressful on mom too. She doesn't like to leave dad by himself... and i think part of it is dad doesn't like to be left alone either. So she's still working but mostly from home and when she does go it's just for short times.
Chemo starts again this Wednesday/Thursday. Dad got that call while we were there and you could tell just knowing that it was going to start again was hard. But this treatment will be the middle of treatments, so it will be half way done. If for some reason dad can't take this one (too weak, not feeling well, etc.) they will stop chemo for good.
So here's how you can pray...
- Pray the dad will feel well enought to take the chemo this week.
- Pray for mom - this is stressful on her too
- Pray for complete healing
- Pray for energy and positive attidudes
Praise
- Dad's been sleeping alright
- he's been feeling quite a bit better and up and around doing things
Hey and remember a phone call from friends brightens dad's day and visits from family and friends brightens both of there days. And if the weather is nice you can even hang out in the backyard with them. Just give them a call or stop by for a short visit.
Okay that's it for now! I'll try and be better at keeping you posted!
Amy - for the clan!
Dad seemed to be doing quite well. He gets tired easy but his appeitite sure isn't suffering. He's been off chemo for almost a month while the they have been working on thinning the blood clots. Dad feels like a pin cushion as there is a nurse that comes in the morning to take his blood (dad has nicknamed those nurses the vampires. then they test that blood and then in the afternoon another nurse comes and he gets the blood thinner needle in his stomach. Understandablely so dad's feeling like a bit of a pin cusion lately!
Dad was up and about some while we were there. He even tried to mow the lawn. But Jared ended up taking over for that. but he was helping around the house more this last week and they even went out to visit others. So that was good to see. He was spending more time out of his chair in the house and in mom's beautiful backyard.
While we were there there were a good number of visitors and this brightened both mom and dad's day. Thanks for stopping by!
This has all been stressful on mom too. She doesn't like to leave dad by himself... and i think part of it is dad doesn't like to be left alone either. So she's still working but mostly from home and when she does go it's just for short times.
Chemo starts again this Wednesday/Thursday. Dad got that call while we were there and you could tell just knowing that it was going to start again was hard. But this treatment will be the middle of treatments, so it will be half way done. If for some reason dad can't take this one (too weak, not feeling well, etc.) they will stop chemo for good.
So here's how you can pray...
- Pray the dad will feel well enought to take the chemo this week.
- Pray for mom - this is stressful on her too
- Pray for complete healing
- Pray for energy and positive attidudes
Praise
- Dad's been sleeping alright
- he's been feeling quite a bit better and up and around doing things
Hey and remember a phone call from friends brightens dad's day and visits from family and friends brightens both of there days. And if the weather is nice you can even hang out in the backyard with them. Just give them a call or stop by for a short visit.
Okay that's it for now! I'll try and be better at keeping you posted!
Amy - for the clan!
opps... this one didn't get to this page...
61 August 05, 2007 at 09:54 AM EDT
Hi Everyone! Just a quick update. Dad had his blood counts redone and it appears that he was EXACTLY on the borderline number for recieving a transfussion. The doctor decided to not do the transfussion. The chemo therapy is still on hold due to his blood count. He continues to improve daily without being on the chemo. In laymen's terms, the chemo was really kicking his butt. The break from the chemo is a welcome one, however there is the concern about what are the ramifications concerning hte cancer about the delay in the full course of the treatment.
Things to pray for: - blood cell count to RISE!!
- blood clots in lungs to break down and disappear
- all cancer GONE!
- Dad's strength
- For wellness in body, mind and spirit.
- the return of energy
- good sleep
- the PICC line to stop getting clogged
Thank you for your prayers.
As you can imagine, this is a very trying time for dad. To not have energy and feel like himself is very upsetting.
Next weekend Amy and Jared will be flying in so our whole family (minus Dan in NC) will beable to be together.
I know we're all looking forward to it!
~Joy -for the family
Hi Everyone! Just a quick update. Dad had his blood counts redone and it appears that he was EXACTLY on the borderline number for recieving a transfussion. The doctor decided to not do the transfussion. The chemo therapy is still on hold due to his blood count. He continues to improve daily without being on the chemo. In laymen's terms, the chemo was really kicking his butt. The break from the chemo is a welcome one, however there is the concern about what are the ramifications concerning hte cancer about the delay in the full course of the treatment.
Things to pray for: - blood cell count to RISE!!
- blood clots in lungs to break down and disappear
- all cancer GONE!
- Dad's strength
- For wellness in body, mind and spirit.
- the return of energy
- good sleep
- the PICC line to stop getting clogged
Thank you for your prayers.
As you can imagine, this is a very trying time for dad. To not have energy and feel like himself is very upsetting.
Next weekend Amy and Jared will be flying in so our whole family (minus Dan in NC) will beable to be together.
I know we're all looking forward to it!
~Joy -for the family
Thursday, August 2, 2007
And more news...
August 02, 2007 at 09:59 AM EDT
Good Morning everyone.
Mom and Dad received a call this morning from the doctor that dad's blood counts are way too low. He was asked to come in immediately to have the blood tests redone. If they are still as low he will be receiving a blood transfusion tomorrow. We continue to pray for complete healing, and for complete restoration of his body.
Please pray with us!
~Joy
Good Morning everyone.
Mom and Dad received a call this morning from the doctor that dad's blood counts are way too low. He was asked to come in immediately to have the blood tests redone. If they are still as low he will be receiving a blood transfusion tomorrow. We continue to pray for complete healing, and for complete restoration of his body.
Please pray with us!
~Joy
Wednesday, August 1, 2007
They say more or less the same thing
I really did try and update both but it didn't happen for some reason in Carepages... so it's more of less the same thing but yeah... keeping them the same!
Hi everyone!
I apologize for not updating sooner. Last week after recieving the results of his blood tests it was decided by his oncologist to delay chemo. He also wanted a CATscan of Dad's abdomen, mostly to take a peak at the surgery sight to see if there was any infection that may be causing some of problems he has been experiencing. Dad had the CATscan on July 31, and within a very short time after arriving home they received a call from one of his (many) doctors that had received the results of the CATscan, asking them to go to the emergency room. It appears that Dad has a blood clot in the lower quadrant of each of his lungs. He went to the emergency room to receive blood thinners (through injection) and to possibly stay over night. He received the medication and was sent home. Thank God for Dr.Chan wanting a CATscan!! We are just so thankful that this was found, and is now being dealt with. Aparantly blood clots in the lungs are not an uncommon side affect of chemo. Please pray with us that these clots will disappear in the Name of Jesus!!! ~Joy for the Whole Family
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
The Latest News
Hey All,
Well, today was CAT scan day... They had the machine wasn't working in their city so they had to head to a smaller centre East of them for the scan. As they were walking in the door after the scan the Doctor called said "Rick, get to the hospital now." So they got ready and got a neighbour to drive them down (that was about 4pm) to the hospital. Apparently the CAT scan showed blood clots in the lower quardrant of his lungs. They sat at the hospital for 4ish hours and dad got a needle in his stomach, which is something that he is going to need daily for a while so they home care nurse will be frequenting the house again for awhile.
Dad's not in pain or anything but still feeling tired.
so you can be praying that this is all works out quickly... pray also for peace and rest for mom and dad! And well for whatever else you feel lead to pray!
Thanks!
Amy for the fam.
Well, today was CAT scan day... They had the machine wasn't working in their city so they had to head to a smaller centre East of them for the scan. As they were walking in the door after the scan the Doctor called said "Rick, get to the hospital now." So they got ready and got a neighbour to drive them down (that was about 4pm) to the hospital. Apparently the CAT scan showed blood clots in the lower quardrant of his lungs. They sat at the hospital for 4ish hours and dad got a needle in his stomach, which is something that he is going to need daily for a while so they home care nurse will be frequenting the house again for awhile.
Dad's not in pain or anything but still feeling tired.
so you can be praying that this is all works out quickly... pray also for peace and rest for mom and dad! And well for whatever else you feel lead to pray!
Thanks!
Amy for the fam.
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
another update
Talked to mom again tonight and the update is...
No Chemo treatment tomorrow for a few reasons.
1. the doctor wants to make sure that the reconnect is all good which means another CAT scan in the next week or so.
2. Dad's lost another 5lbs in the last 2 weeks so the dosage of the next treatment needs to be less.
So, yeah no chemo treatment and they are waiting for a call from the doctor in the next few days to set up an appointment for the CAT scan.
So yeah please pray that they can figure out what's up and why he's feeling so horrible.
I think that's it.
Amy for the crew
No Chemo treatment tomorrow for a few reasons.
1. the doctor wants to make sure that the reconnect is all good which means another CAT scan in the next week or so.
2. Dad's lost another 5lbs in the last 2 weeks so the dosage of the next treatment needs to be less.
So, yeah no chemo treatment and they are waiting for a call from the doctor in the next few days to set up an appointment for the CAT scan.
So yeah please pray that they can figure out what's up and why he's feeling so horrible.
I think that's it.
Amy for the crew
Monday, July 23, 2007
Just Quick
Hello All,
I talked to mom tonight and she said that dad is going for blood tests tomorrow to see if everything is okay for the chemo treatment (re-attach bottle) for Wednesday. So you can pray that everything in the blood test come back okay.
That's all for tonight!
Amy - for us!
I talked to mom tonight and she said that dad is going for blood tests tomorrow to see if everything is okay for the chemo treatment (re-attach bottle) for Wednesday. So you can pray that everything in the blood test come back okay.
That's all for tonight!
Amy - for us!
July 19, 2007 at 04:05 PM EDT
Hello Friends. Last night dad had to be taken to the emergency room because of an elevated temperature. They have run a few tests, and put him on antibiotics "just in case", and sent him home. It had sounded like they were going to keep him over night but I guess they felt he was able to go home. Please be in prayer that this is just a chemo side affect and not something else to go on. Thank you to all who visit and call, it really helps to keep mom and dad's spirit's up. Thank you so much for all the small ways that you are "Jesus with skin on" for our family. Blessings, Joy
Thursday, July 5, 2007
Hard Days
So it's the middle of the night (well not wuite middle i guess but most of you Ontarioians will be sound asleep) where many of you are but I'm still up so I thought that I would update everyone.
Dad's had a very rough last few days/week, not sleeping, feeling all around miserable and mom and dad are both getting discouraged. It's been rough!
But good news, thanks again to those who've been praying, today the hospital called and dad's hemoglobian and blood count is WAY down... Now, let me clarify, yes I do know that is actually bad new but the good thing is its treatable and it's probably why he's been feeling so horrible. So they started him on some treatments (that are really expensive but covered by their health coverage... its kinda like God had things all fiugred out when dad started working at 16). So he'll have 3 more treatments with the medicine that should bring everything to a better level. And those three treatments can be done at home by the nurse that comes in to check on him!
Thanks again so much for your prayers.
I guess the next thing that we could all be praying about is their regular August camping trip... pray that dad will feel well enough to go and that the doctor will say it's alright even encourage them to go and pick up the treatments again when they get back. I just think that it would be so good for them to just get away and be normal... do their normal traditional camping with friends and family!!!!
So yeah... I'm not sure whatelse to tell you... thanks for your words of encouragement, visits and phone calls. Though Dad has been sleeping lots the doctor today told him that he needs to make sure that he is up and about so if you're in the area feel free to stop by and get dad out in the yard or for a walk or something! The doctor also gave him a list of foods that he should be eating more of... the only thing mom told me was popcorn but I know that he loves a good Harvey's burger. It may be easy to bribe or i mean convince him to join you for one and well there's always The Globe and Swiss Chalet! I should find out more of the list and then you who are around those parts may be able to drag him out more!
Oh and mom has really appreciated those who have invited her out for breakfast and coffee and stopped by to visit! Since dad's been sleeping lots lately, its good for her not to just sit around and worry!
Okay I'm going to go now... It's geting late here even and I only have 4 sleeps until our VBS which we're planning for 100 kids! May not hear from me for a bit!
Hey and if you like you can send a pray up for me and my staff for VBS!
Good night, (though it's more like good morning)
Amy for the clan
Dad's had a very rough last few days/week, not sleeping, feeling all around miserable and mom and dad are both getting discouraged. It's been rough!
But good news, thanks again to those who've been praying, today the hospital called and dad's hemoglobian and blood count is WAY down... Now, let me clarify, yes I do know that is actually bad new but the good thing is its treatable and it's probably why he's been feeling so horrible. So they started him on some treatments (that are really expensive but covered by their health coverage... its kinda like God had things all fiugred out when dad started working at 16). So he'll have 3 more treatments with the medicine that should bring everything to a better level. And those three treatments can be done at home by the nurse that comes in to check on him!
Thanks again so much for your prayers.
I guess the next thing that we could all be praying about is their regular August camping trip... pray that dad will feel well enough to go and that the doctor will say it's alright even encourage them to go and pick up the treatments again when they get back. I just think that it would be so good for them to just get away and be normal... do their normal traditional camping with friends and family!!!!
So yeah... I'm not sure whatelse to tell you... thanks for your words of encouragement, visits and phone calls. Though Dad has been sleeping lots the doctor today told him that he needs to make sure that he is up and about so if you're in the area feel free to stop by and get dad out in the yard or for a walk or something! The doctor also gave him a list of foods that he should be eating more of... the only thing mom told me was popcorn but I know that he loves a good Harvey's burger. It may be easy to bribe or i mean convince him to join you for one and well there's always The Globe and Swiss Chalet! I should find out more of the list and then you who are around those parts may be able to drag him out more!
Oh and mom has really appreciated those who have invited her out for breakfast and coffee and stopped by to visit! Since dad's been sleeping lots lately, its good for her not to just sit around and worry!
Okay I'm going to go now... It's geting late here even and I only have 4 sleeps until our VBS which we're planning for 100 kids! May not hear from me for a bit!
Hey and if you like you can send a pray up for me and my staff for VBS!
Good night, (though it's more like good morning)
Amy for the clan
Thursday, June 28, 2007
We are still here!
Hello friends,
Sorry it's been a while since our last update.
I'll try and bring you all up to speed.
After his last round of chemo Dad experienced a bad case of insomnia that lasted 5 nights. This, along with the general ill feeling brought on by chemo left him feeling very drained. He also had a fever one night and went to the hospital to make sure that everything was ok, and it appears that it was just a freak incident, but when you're on chemo all fevers need to be investigated.
Because of the insomnia, and how awful he felt the last time, chemo was delayed by one week, and they'll be giving him a lower dose this time. By the time you all read this he will probably have been given his chemo treatment today. Please pray that his side affects will be lessened this time, and that his sleep will be restful and peaceful.
To those of you still reading these updates and praying regularly for dad, thank you SO MUCH!!! ~Joy
Sorry it's been a while since our last update.
I'll try and bring you all up to speed.
After his last round of chemo Dad experienced a bad case of insomnia that lasted 5 nights. This, along with the general ill feeling brought on by chemo left him feeling very drained. He also had a fever one night and went to the hospital to make sure that everything was ok, and it appears that it was just a freak incident, but when you're on chemo all fevers need to be investigated.
Because of the insomnia, and how awful he felt the last time, chemo was delayed by one week, and they'll be giving him a lower dose this time. By the time you all read this he will probably have been given his chemo treatment today. Please pray that his side affects will be lessened this time, and that his sleep will be restful and peaceful.
To those of you still reading these updates and praying regularly for dad, thank you SO MUCH!!! ~Joy
Monday, June 11, 2007
Posted June 8th - sorry a little behind!
Hi Everyone, Just a quick update, dad's first day of chemo went well. So far he hasn't appeared to have any major side affects. Please continue to pray for healing in his body. The resection of the colon is an interesting healing process.
Also pray for sleep is greatly appreciated!!
Blessings to all of you who continue to lift up dad in prayer.
Joy
Wednesday, June 6, 2007
Urgent Prayer Request
Hello all...
so yeah it's been a long time but Dad is starting chemo treatments tomorrow and he's not doing well. He's not sleeping and I think that he is really worried about it... but he's not saying that. Mom's worried too. They're both really struggling with this second treatment. I really don't know whatelse to say. Please pray for for strength, courage, peace, and good rest for dad and mom. He's on three different medication for nausea and sleeping pills right now and dad doesn't take pills!
Mom's been helping dad with cutting the grass and outdoor stuff... but she's stressed too!
Dad was to see the doctor and there was some concern that there was some swelling close to where the re-connect was and that's concerning everyone (everyone but one of the doctors)!
So yeah, this is a little scattered but yeah PLEASE PRAY!!!
Thank you so much,
Amy
so yeah it's been a long time but Dad is starting chemo treatments tomorrow and he's not doing well. He's not sleeping and I think that he is really worried about it... but he's not saying that. Mom's worried too. They're both really struggling with this second treatment. I really don't know whatelse to say. Please pray for for strength, courage, peace, and good rest for dad and mom. He's on three different medication for nausea and sleeping pills right now and dad doesn't take pills!
Mom's been helping dad with cutting the grass and outdoor stuff... but she's stressed too!
Dad was to see the doctor and there was some concern that there was some swelling close to where the re-connect was and that's concerning everyone (everyone but one of the doctors)!
So yeah, this is a little scattered but yeah PLEASE PRAY!!!
Thank you so much,
Amy
Wednesday, May 23, 2007
more non-news... or well something like that!
Well, It's been a while since we've updated so i figured that it was about time... There is nothing new! HA! Just kidding, well not really but, anyway. Dad is doing well. All the openings that were made for the operation have more or less closed up wonderfully! No infections at all! He is doing well, still gets tired if he does too much but also gets bored if he doesn't do enough ~ its a balancing act but recovery is going well.
He's had some appointments but needs to wait for a few more before the chemo can start. They have found out that he will get the pic line again... probably sometime in June... depends on how the appointments go when he'll start treatments. He'll have to go into the hosiptal to get the bottle attached (he'll have the same type of bottle as the first time) but the nurse that has been coming to change the dressing says that the nurses that come to the house can disconnect the bottles which would be really nice because then mom and dad won't have to be going to the hospital every two days! So yeah you can pray that's how it can be!
But yeah that's the update I have for now!
"Talk" to you all again soon... when there's new news one of us will let you know!
Amy
for the crew
He's had some appointments but needs to wait for a few more before the chemo can start. They have found out that he will get the pic line again... probably sometime in June... depends on how the appointments go when he'll start treatments. He'll have to go into the hosiptal to get the bottle attached (he'll have the same type of bottle as the first time) but the nurse that has been coming to change the dressing says that the nurses that come to the house can disconnect the bottles which would be really nice because then mom and dad won't have to be going to the hospital every two days! So yeah you can pray that's how it can be!
But yeah that's the update I have for now!
"Talk" to you all again soon... when there's new news one of us will let you know!
Amy
for the crew
Friday, May 11, 2007
Almost the Weekend
Hello All,
Talked to mom this morning and got the update on dad's appointment yesterday. He went to see the chemo doctor and they are going to do 8 treatments, 2 per week for 4 months. He's going to have the chemo bottle again and the pik line. They don't know for sure when he will start that again. He has to see Dr. A and get a CAT scan and heal up some more before they can do anything. So yeah, that's the new there.
Oh and he is healing up really well. The nurse that comes in to pack the places that they openned to go in for the surgery, says that they are healing up really well!
Thanks for your prayers. Things that you can specifically pray for these days are: quick healing, wisdom for doctors, and that the CAT will show no cancer at all! Dr A figures he got it all but prayers won't hurt! :)
Well I should go, off to get youth group stuff ready!
Thanks again for your support, prayers, visits phone calls, etc they are greatly appreciated!
Amy
(for the crew)
Talked to mom this morning and got the update on dad's appointment yesterday. He went to see the chemo doctor and they are going to do 8 treatments, 2 per week for 4 months. He's going to have the chemo bottle again and the pik line. They don't know for sure when he will start that again. He has to see Dr. A and get a CAT scan and heal up some more before they can do anything. So yeah, that's the new there.
Oh and he is healing up really well. The nurse that comes in to pack the places that they openned to go in for the surgery, says that they are healing up really well!
Thanks for your prayers. Things that you can specifically pray for these days are: quick healing, wisdom for doctors, and that the CAT will show no cancer at all! Dr A figures he got it all but prayers won't hurt! :)
Well I should go, off to get youth group stuff ready!
Thanks again for your support, prayers, visits phone calls, etc they are greatly appreciated!
Amy
(for the crew)
Thursday, May 3, 2007
Its safe to visit...
Well, dad can shower now, so those of you that were staying away because of his "strength" its all good now... no but seriously i just talked to mom and dad and Joy for that matter, and dad can now shower and not just bath which he is excited about! He's doing well really well. The nurse comes in once a day to change the dressing and they are saying that everything looks to be healing up well.
He is in more pain then last time but we remind him that they did more this time... so it will take longer to heal.
He's getting a little bored as he really can't do much. He has appreciated the visits and phone calls that have come but feel free to call and/or stop by I'm sure he'd appreciate the company.
Joy is still in there... or well more still there again. i think the plan was for her to stay until with weekend whne Dan and he kids will come and get her.
So, yeah that's the news from here... well more there.
Thank you so much for all your prayers and support. Please continue to pray for quick healing!
Peace out, - wow I'm still tired because i found that hilarious!
Amy (for the gang)
He is in more pain then last time but we remind him that they did more this time... so it will take longer to heal.
He's getting a little bored as he really can't do much. He has appreciated the visits and phone calls that have come but feel free to call and/or stop by I'm sure he'd appreciate the company.
Joy is still in there... or well more still there again. i think the plan was for her to stay until with weekend whne Dan and he kids will come and get her.
So, yeah that's the news from here... well more there.
Thank you so much for all your prayers and support. Please continue to pray for quick healing!
Peace out, - wow I'm still tired because i found that hilarious!
Amy (for the gang)
May 1
So yeah, I'm back into the land of internet!!! Sorry this has taken so long to get to you! I will try and update after i talk to mom and dad tonight! Thanks all, Amy
May 01, 2007 at 08:16 AM EDT
He's HOME!!! For those of you who may have gone up to visit, i'm sure you've figured it out! I'm sorry i was unable to update earlier (those of you with 3 or more kids know the craziness). Dad was given the boot Monday morning. He's doing amazingly well, and continues to improve daily. The difference in recovery from the last time is amazing, and continues to be somewhat of a mystery to us, considering the surgery was more invasive this time. We certainly serve a mighty God! Amy left for a few day stop over in Calgary to meet her intern. It's so funny, it seems like just a few short years ago SHE was the intern! I'm headed back to Mom & Dad's today and staying till Saturday (Mom's b-day...oh she'll kill me for saying that!). Please continue to pray for dad, specifically against infection and healing of the bowel. THANK YOU!
~Joy (for the crew)
May 01, 2007 at 08:16 AM EDT
He's HOME!!! For those of you who may have gone up to visit, i'm sure you've figured it out! I'm sorry i was unable to update earlier (those of you with 3 or more kids know the craziness). Dad was given the boot Monday morning. He's doing amazingly well, and continues to improve daily. The difference in recovery from the last time is amazing, and continues to be somewhat of a mystery to us, considering the surgery was more invasive this time. We certainly serve a mighty God! Amy left for a few day stop over in Calgary to meet her intern. It's so funny, it seems like just a few short years ago SHE was the intern! I'm headed back to Mom & Dad's today and staying till Saturday (Mom's b-day...oh she'll kill me for saying that!). Please continue to pray for dad, specifically against infection and healing of the bowel. THANK YOU!
~Joy (for the crew)
Thursday, April 26, 2007
Day 3
Day 3 has come and almost gone. Dad continues to do well and we’re all so pleased. Dr. A and Dr. Toma were in to see him today and both said that he’s doing well. Right now he is on the epidural for pain control and it is very effective, tomorrow the epidural will be removed and he will be onto oral pain killers. After the last surgery he did very well, but this time there was more invasive things done so we’re praying that the pain killers will be just as effective. I’ll (Joy) will be heading home to my family tomorrow to make sure that the kids haven’t tied and gagged poor old Dan, and Amy will be here until Monday. So if you haven’t had a chance to stop by yet make sure to stop in and say Hi to her!
Continue to pray for:
- total and complete healing
- against infection
- that the repair to Dad’s colon will heal and that there will be no leaks
- that he will continue to cough to prevent pneumonia ( this is very painful for him)
- for effective pain control
Thank you so much for being our friends and loving and supporting us through this time in our life.
~Joy (for the crew)
Continue to pray for:
- total and complete healing
- against infection
- that the repair to Dad’s colon will heal and that there will be no leaks
- that he will continue to cough to prevent pneumonia ( this is very painful for him)
- for effective pain control
Thank you so much for being our friends and loving and supporting us through this time in our life.
~Joy (for the crew)
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
Day 2
Well, we’ve reached the end of Day 2. It was another good day. We keep remarking to each other how much better Dad seems to be doing this time. His colour is better and he appears to have more strength. What a wonderful answer to prayer. There were a handful of visitors and it really brightened our day. Amy wasn’t able to be with us a good part of the day as she came down with a terrible migraine, but she seems to be doing much better this evening. It’s really nice seeing some of the same nurses that we had last time, they really are a great bunch of girls with such wonderful personalities and bed side manners, they truly are a blessing.
So that’s about it for now, Dad’s doing wonderfully and we’re giving God the Glory for that. Please continue on in your prayers as there still is a good part of the journey still to travel.
~Joy (for the crew)
So that’s about it for now, Dad’s doing wonderfully and we’re giving God the Glory for that. Please continue on in your prayers as there still is a good part of the journey still to travel.
~Joy (for the crew)
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Long Day but good news...
It was a long day, but such good news to share. Of course, the main reason you’re all reading this is because you care so much about Dad so I won’t hold you off and build anticipation. The surgery is seen as a success!! WOOWHOO! \o/
Dr A was able to remove the tumor and all visible signs of it. That’s the biggest news and our #1 prayer answered. But, like all Father’s, God has given Dad not just what he needed, but also supplied a want as well. Dr. A was able to reconnect Dad’s bowel, so no more colostomy!! This is a HUGE answer to prayer for Dad.
Amy and I both made it here ok last night, and along with Dan we were able to be with Mom and Dad today. Dad’s been a bit out of it today as can be expected after surgery. Please continue to pray for his recovery. Mostly for healing of the resected part of his colon. It’s very important that it heal well and there be no leaks. Dad will need to have follow up chemotherapy after his recovery.
So that is about it in a nutshell. We’re extremely tired tonight, but oh so happy and thankful.
I will attempt to write more tomorrow, but for right now I’m completely brain dead.
Thank you for your prayers, they have been so appreciated by our entire family.
~Joy
PS Just so you know they don't start cooking pizza at the hospital til 1030.
Dr A was able to remove the tumor and all visible signs of it. That’s the biggest news and our #1 prayer answered. But, like all Father’s, God has given Dad not just what he needed, but also supplied a want as well. Dr. A was able to reconnect Dad’s bowel, so no more colostomy!! This is a HUGE answer to prayer for Dad.
Amy and I both made it here ok last night, and along with Dan we were able to be with Mom and Dad today. Dad’s been a bit out of it today as can be expected after surgery. Please continue to pray for his recovery. Mostly for healing of the resected part of his colon. It’s very important that it heal well and there be no leaks. Dad will need to have follow up chemotherapy after his recovery.
So that is about it in a nutshell. We’re extremely tired tonight, but oh so happy and thankful.
I will attempt to write more tomorrow, but for right now I’m completely brain dead.
Thank you for your prayers, they have been so appreciated by our entire family.
~Joy
PS Just so you know they don't start cooking pizza at the hospital til 1030.
Friday, April 20, 2007
Yesterday and Next Week
Hello All,
just wanted to give you a quick update on the appointments dad had yesterday. Everything went well. They were long but looks as though everything is a go ahead for Tuesday... we, yes i said we but i'll give you more details on that in a minute, have to be at the hospital at 6:30 Tuesday morning.
As for the we... i fly in monday night... and will be around until April 30. Jared isn't going to be able to make it out for this trip as the construction life is busy right now and it really didn't make sense to come out for just the weekend!!! Joy and Dan and kids are coming down for the day of the surgery and then timing is still a little up in the air how long they will be staying. So yeah it will be good to see many of you while I'm there.
So, prayer requests:
- Pray for wisdom for the doctors.
- Pray for quick recovery
- Pray for safe travels
- Pray for quick time adjustment for Amy
- Pray for Jared who can't be with us
- and anything else God places on your mind
So yeah well that's about it from me for now... I'm not sure what the internet access situation is going to look like while I am away so... yeah, it's not that i hate you if I don't reply to something.
In His Hands and that's all that matters really,
Amy for the crew
just wanted to give you a quick update on the appointments dad had yesterday. Everything went well. They were long but looks as though everything is a go ahead for Tuesday... we, yes i said we but i'll give you more details on that in a minute, have to be at the hospital at 6:30 Tuesday morning.
As for the we... i fly in monday night... and will be around until April 30. Jared isn't going to be able to make it out for this trip as the construction life is busy right now and it really didn't make sense to come out for just the weekend!!! Joy and Dan and kids are coming down for the day of the surgery and then timing is still a little up in the air how long they will be staying. So yeah it will be good to see many of you while I'm there.
So, prayer requests:
- Pray for wisdom for the doctors.
- Pray for quick recovery
- Pray for safe travels
- Pray for quick time adjustment for Amy
- Pray for Jared who can't be with us
- and anything else God places on your mind
So yeah well that's about it from me for now... I'm not sure what the internet access situation is going to look like while I am away so... yeah, it's not that i hate you if I don't reply to something.
In His Hands and that's all that matters really,
Amy for the crew
Monday, April 16, 2007
ARe you still out there???
Hello All,
Well it's been awhile but things are good. I thought that I would update you on the upcoming dates!
Tomorrow dad has an appointment with Dr. Cole - the radiation doctor and Thursday is Pre-op and Anaesthesiologist appointment. April 23 is cleanse day and April 24th, early morning, we will be at the hospital!
So for those praying... please pray:
- all appointments go well
- doctors have wisdom and steady hands
- peace for dad and all of us, those that can be there and those who will be far away
- that all glory will be given to God, no matter the outcome!
- safe travels for those of us that have to get there
- Chemo treatments afterwards
So yeah, Thanks again!
Amy
Well it's been awhile but things are good. I thought that I would update you on the upcoming dates!
Tomorrow dad has an appointment with Dr. Cole - the radiation doctor and Thursday is Pre-op and Anaesthesiologist appointment. April 23 is cleanse day and April 24th, early morning, we will be at the hospital!
So for those praying... please pray:
- all appointments go well
- doctors have wisdom and steady hands
- peace for dad and all of us, those that can be there and those who will be far away
- that all glory will be given to God, no matter the outcome!
- safe travels for those of us that have to get there
- Chemo treatments afterwards
So yeah, Thanks again!
Amy
Tuesday, March 20, 2007
The DATES
Hey All,
I just talked to dad and the info I got is:
Pre-op - April 11th
Surgery Date - Apr 24th
Post Surgery Chemo - May 11th
So yeah that's the news for now!
Amy
I just talked to dad and the info I got is:
Pre-op - April 11th
Surgery Date - Apr 24th
Post Surgery Chemo - May 11th
So yeah that's the news for now!
Amy
Friday, March 16, 2007
A little late... This was Wednesdays Post
So Joy posted this a few days ago and today I am finally updating! Wow, Busy times around here!!!
Thanks again for all your suport!
Amy
March 14, 2007 at 08:44 AM EST
IT'S THE LAST DAY!!! C'mon everyone, do the happy dance with us!!! \o/ \o/ \o/
We'll be knowing more in the upcoming weeks as to when the following surgery will be and there will more than likely be follow up chemotherapy to ensure that every last itty bit of that cancer is gone.
This week mom and dad made their reservation for camping in August. It was so wonderful to hear that they're planning for their annual camping trip. Of course, my kids were thrilled as mom and dad always take them for a while and it was one of the first things the kids asked about when they heard opa was sick.
Thank you for your prayers through this leg of the journey. Without a doubt, your prayers and our good Lord have made all the difference in the world. Dad has a few more hurdles to overcome, but the finish line seems so close now!!
On a personal note, as some of you know my husband Dan has been layed off from work again. This has come as quite a blow to our family as this is the second time in less than a year. Please pray for us as we go through this, that we'll be re-employed quickly and if it's not TOO much to ask that he would beable to find employement OUT of the automotive sector. Unfortunately, in talking with hiring agents, this is the nature of the beast when it comes to the automotive sector. Oh, and if anyone needs a Mechanical Engineer.. please call! :D Thank you for your prayers ~Joy
Thanks again for all your suport!
Amy
March 14, 2007 at 08:44 AM EST
IT'S THE LAST DAY!!! C'mon everyone, do the happy dance with us!!! \o/ \o/ \o/
We'll be knowing more in the upcoming weeks as to when the following surgery will be and there will more than likely be follow up chemotherapy to ensure that every last itty bit of that cancer is gone.
This week mom and dad made their reservation for camping in August. It was so wonderful to hear that they're planning for their annual camping trip. Of course, my kids were thrilled as mom and dad always take them for a while and it was one of the first things the kids asked about when they heard opa was sick.
Thank you for your prayers through this leg of the journey. Without a doubt, your prayers and our good Lord have made all the difference in the world. Dad has a few more hurdles to overcome, but the finish line seems so close now!!
On a personal note, as some of you know my husband Dan has been layed off from work again. This has come as quite a blow to our family as this is the second time in less than a year. Please pray for us as we go through this, that we'll be re-employed quickly and if it's not TOO much to ask that he would beable to find employement OUT of the automotive sector. Unfortunately, in talking with hiring agents, this is the nature of the beast when it comes to the automotive sector. Oh, and if anyone needs a Mechanical Engineer.. please call! :D Thank you for your prayers ~Joy
Friday, March 9, 2007
opps
Thanks Tricia -- typed April when it should have been March... Anyone want to be my proof reader?!? ~ Amy
Contunied from yesterday...
Alright So I am back and I have a little more time to write up the latest report.
So as I wrote before chemo is done -- there may have to be more after the operation but that's not be determined yet!
Mom and dad will have to start calling Dr A. office again on Monday to set up the pre-surgery appointments. This is kinda exciting as it means that dad's treatments are coming to an end!
At last night's raditation dad was supposed to get results from the xrays that he had on monday but Dad doesn't remember what they said and mom isn't home. She's the one that writes everything down. What dad does remember is that the x-rays don't tell much when it come to the radiation treatments. There may be more info when I get a chance to talk to mom.
Last treatment date for radiation has been set for newxt Wednedsay - March 14... so that means tonight and then 3 more treatments! Isn't that exciting.
With Chemo and radiation treatments done that means that an operation date can be at least discussed. It appears that the surgery will be no ealier than April 20th. (as the radiation and chemo are active for a while after they end).
MAJOR PRAYER REQUEST
In talking with the doctor there is concern that the colon may not be able to be reconnected! This is a BIG prayer request especially for Dad. He mentions it everytime we talk. Please pray that the doctor will be able to reconnect the colon. Prayer that God's healing hand with stretch and re-size/reshape the colon and there will be no reason that it can not be reconnected! Without this re-connection he will need to keep the cathitor and he would really like to get rid of it as is has caused greater stress then was explained for both mom and dad!
So yeah that's the news I know!
Thanks again to everyone that has been there to support through prayers, visits, calls and driving. I'm sure some of the drivers won't know what to do with themselves in the evenings now! If you show up on mom and dad's doorstep they may even get in the car with you and drive around a bit if you're going through driving withdrawl!
Take Care
With Love
Amy and Jared (for the gang)
So as I wrote before chemo is done -- there may have to be more after the operation but that's not be determined yet!
Mom and dad will have to start calling Dr A. office again on Monday to set up the pre-surgery appointments. This is kinda exciting as it means that dad's treatments are coming to an end!
At last night's raditation dad was supposed to get results from the xrays that he had on monday but Dad doesn't remember what they said and mom isn't home. She's the one that writes everything down. What dad does remember is that the x-rays don't tell much when it come to the radiation treatments. There may be more info when I get a chance to talk to mom.
Last treatment date for radiation has been set for newxt Wednedsay - March 14... so that means tonight and then 3 more treatments! Isn't that exciting.
With Chemo and radiation treatments done that means that an operation date can be at least discussed. It appears that the surgery will be no ealier than April 20th. (as the radiation and chemo are active for a while after they end).
MAJOR PRAYER REQUEST
In talking with the doctor there is concern that the colon may not be able to be reconnected! This is a BIG prayer request especially for Dad. He mentions it everytime we talk. Please pray that the doctor will be able to reconnect the colon. Prayer that God's healing hand with stretch and re-size/reshape the colon and there will be no reason that it can not be reconnected! Without this re-connection he will need to keep the cathitor and he would really like to get rid of it as is has caused greater stress then was explained for both mom and dad!
So yeah that's the news I know!
Thanks again to everyone that has been there to support through prayers, visits, calls and driving. I'm sure some of the drivers won't know what to do with themselves in the evenings now! If you show up on mom and dad's doorstep they may even get in the car with you and drive around a bit if you're going through driving withdrawl!
Take Care
With Love
Amy and Jared (for the gang)
Thursday, March 8, 2007
not much time
It's been a week... sorry for the quietness on this end.
Today was a big day... the END of the chemo treatment. Dad saw the doctor and everything looks good.
Tonight they have the regular radiation treatment. Last week dad had some x-rays so they will get the results from those.
Other News:
Earliest surgery date April 20th Oh have to run... I'll update this bit more as soon as I can!
Amy
Today was a big day... the END of the chemo treatment. Dad saw the doctor and everything looks good.
Tonight they have the regular radiation treatment. Last week dad had some x-rays so they will get the results from those.
Other News:
Earliest surgery date April 20th Oh have to run... I'll update this bit more as soon as I can!
Amy
Thursday, March 1, 2007
WinterWonderLand
Hello all,
Just a quick update because when I called mom was already in bed... oops!!!
But you never know with mom...
she's up late some nights and other nights she does to bed early!
As you Ontarioians know the weather is not so great! Due to weather tonight there was no trip into TO. So that means that there will be one more night of treatments at the end of the treatments.
Also the news on the Chemo treatments is that Dad has one more week with the chemo bottle and it will be removed next Thursday.
That's the news thank you so much for being a part of this journey with us!
Good Night all (though most who check this out are already in bed)!
Amy
Just a quick update because when I called mom was already in bed... oops!!!
But you never know with mom...
she's up late some nights and other nights she does to bed early!
As you Ontarioians know the weather is not so great! Due to weather tonight there was no trip into TO. So that means that there will be one more night of treatments at the end of the treatments.
Also the news on the Chemo treatments is that Dad has one more week with the chemo bottle and it will be removed next Thursday.
That's the news thank you so much for being a part of this journey with us!
Good Night all (though most who check this out are already in bed)!
Amy
Friday, February 23, 2007
Boring?
Hi everyone, just a really quick update. Talked to mom this morning and altho it sounds "boring" (haha ya RIGHT) to say, everything is exactly the same! Isn't that wonderful?? Dad continues to do amazingly well with very little change to the minimal side affects he is having to the chemo and radiation. He had his chemo bag changed yesterday and his blood counts are doing beautifully!
One thing to keep in the front of your mind while praying is that this tumour will shrink. After all, this is what dad is going through the chemo and radiation for! The goal is to have the tumour shrivel up (lovely technical term!) so that the second operation will allow them to remove it without damage to his bladder, and to reconnect the bowel.
Once again, thank you to everyone who is dedicated to driving mom and dad 5 days/week to Sunnybrook. This gift of time and energy is so greatly appreciated. Also, thank you to all of you who are being so considerate by being aware of feeling ill and saying that you're not able to drive or visit. This is so important right now to keep dad healthy.
Blessings to you all!
~Joy
One thing to keep in the front of your mind while praying is that this tumour will shrink. After all, this is what dad is going through the chemo and radiation for! The goal is to have the tumour shrivel up (lovely technical term!) so that the second operation will allow them to remove it without damage to his bladder, and to reconnect the bowel.
Once again, thank you to everyone who is dedicated to driving mom and dad 5 days/week to Sunnybrook. This gift of time and energy is so greatly appreciated. Also, thank you to all of you who are being so considerate by being aware of feeling ill and saying that you're not able to drive or visit. This is so important right now to keep dad healthy.
Blessings to you all!
~Joy
Monday, February 19, 2007
News for the Crew
hello all,
Just a quick update. There is no appointment today due to umm I forget what Ontario calls it but in Alberta it would be family day (we don't get one in BC).
Joy and Dan and the kids were in to see mom and dad on the weekend. It was just a short visit as Joy still had her cold and waited in the car. But even though it was should mom and dad both appreciated them stopping in on their way by!
Just talked to mom and dad. Dad went for a walk today... covered about a block! He's actually enjoying that the doctor has told him to be more active. The other day he even did laundry and vaccuumed the house. I think that he is enjoying being able to get back to doing stuff... it's easier not to be bored! But yeah that's about it!
Thanks again to friends and family for visits, chauffeuring, food phone calls... and most of all your prayers! Isn't God great!?!?!
Amy -- for the crew!
Just a quick update. There is no appointment today due to umm I forget what Ontario calls it but in Alberta it would be family day (we don't get one in BC).
Joy and Dan and the kids were in to see mom and dad on the weekend. It was just a short visit as Joy still had her cold and waited in the car. But even though it was should mom and dad both appreciated them stopping in on their way by!
Just talked to mom and dad. Dad went for a walk today... covered about a block! He's actually enjoying that the doctor has told him to be more active. The other day he even did laundry and vaccuumed the house. I think that he is enjoying being able to get back to doing stuff... it's easier not to be bored! But yeah that's about it!
Thanks again to friends and family for visits, chauffeuring, food phone calls... and most of all your prayers! Isn't God great!?!?!
Amy -- for the crew!
Friday, February 16, 2007
YAY GOD!!!
Well Joy always seem to be able to get to this whole posting thing first... could be the whole time difference thing!!!
Amy
As i (Joy) write this to you i'm sitting in my livingroom wrapped up in a blanket with the sunshining and i'm feeling kind of like a cat. I hope you all are surviving this cold snap in Ontario. After the mild beginning to the winter this reminds us that we do indeed live in Canada.
I talked with mom and dad this morning and everything appears to be going very well. Dad had his chemo bag changed yesterday and had the obligatory blood tests. His white blood cell count and hemoglobin are doing wonderfully! YEAH GOD! His weight is also holding well. The metalic taste that he was having in the first weeks of chemo is not happening as much. This is so much more than we could ask for. I'm sure, that like us many of you have had friends or family members go through chemotherapy and have seen first hand the many devistating side affects that can happen. These minimal side affects are truly a gift from God.
Mom was saying how wonderful the roads have been driving back and forth from Sunnybrook every day. With the winter season in full swing you know what a miracle this is.
The half way mark is almost upon us for the chemo and radiation!! Isn't that exciting? Continue in your prayers, THEY ARE WORKING!!
On a sad note, Janie and I have both come down with killer colds in the last 24 hours so it appears that our visit to mom and dad won't be happening. This is of course quite disappointing to me, but God knows best. It sure is hard to not say "well it's just a cold".. so i have to take my own advice that I've given all of you, and stay away until I'm better for the sake of dad's health.
:(
~Joy
Amy
As i (Joy) write this to you i'm sitting in my livingroom wrapped up in a blanket with the sunshining and i'm feeling kind of like a cat. I hope you all are surviving this cold snap in Ontario. After the mild beginning to the winter this reminds us that we do indeed live in Canada.
I talked with mom and dad this morning and everything appears to be going very well. Dad had his chemo bag changed yesterday and had the obligatory blood tests. His white blood cell count and hemoglobin are doing wonderfully! YEAH GOD! His weight is also holding well. The metalic taste that he was having in the first weeks of chemo is not happening as much. This is so much more than we could ask for. I'm sure, that like us many of you have had friends or family members go through chemotherapy and have seen first hand the many devistating side affects that can happen. These minimal side affects are truly a gift from God.
Mom was saying how wonderful the roads have been driving back and forth from Sunnybrook every day. With the winter season in full swing you know what a miracle this is.
The half way mark is almost upon us for the chemo and radiation!! Isn't that exciting? Continue in your prayers, THEY ARE WORKING!!
On a sad note, Janie and I have both come down with killer colds in the last 24 hours so it appears that our visit to mom and dad won't be happening. This is of course quite disappointing to me, but God knows best. It sure is hard to not say "well it's just a cold".. so i have to take my own advice that I've given all of you, and stay away until I'm better for the sake of dad's health.
:(
~Joy
Monday, February 12, 2007
no news it good news?
From Joy...
I hope you all have had a wonderful Lord's Day celebrating with your families. We were blessed this weekend with all 3 kids going to a winter camp with church. We went there this morning and were blessed by all the kids leading the service. It is such a blessing to watch children worship and serve!
I talked to mom and dad this afternoon and was surprised to hear they were sitting at Dagmar ski resort watching the skiers. Dad is still experiencing very few side affects aside from tiredness and the funny taste in his mouth. This is such a wonderful answer to prayer!
Dan, the kids and myself are hoping to beable to visit Dad and Mom next weekend provided that we're all healthy. So prayers for the health of all of is much appreciated.
A special thank you to all of you who are helping out in such pracitical and profound ways. The hours spent driving, preparing meals, phonecalls and notes are such an encouragement to our spirits.
Bless you! ~Joy
I hope you all have had a wonderful Lord's Day celebrating with your families. We were blessed this weekend with all 3 kids going to a winter camp with church. We went there this morning and were blessed by all the kids leading the service. It is such a blessing to watch children worship and serve!
I talked to mom and dad this afternoon and was surprised to hear they were sitting at Dagmar ski resort watching the skiers. Dad is still experiencing very few side affects aside from tiredness and the funny taste in his mouth. This is such a wonderful answer to prayer!
Dan, the kids and myself are hoping to beable to visit Dad and Mom next weekend provided that we're all healthy. So prayers for the health of all of is much appreciated.
A special thank you to all of you who are helping out in such pracitical and profound ways. The hours spent driving, preparing meals, phonecalls and notes are such an encouragement to our spirits.
Bless you! ~Joy
Wednesday, February 7, 2007
Week 2 Chemo Starts
Good Morning All!
Dad is doing good this morning. He said he was less uncomfortable after the radiation treatment than he was on Monday so that's good! Today he will receive his next chemo bag that will last him another week. He will also have his blood checked to keep an eye on his white bloodcell count and his platelet count.
This is a good time to talk to all of you about infection. If you're schedueled to drive, or coming over for a visit please pay special attention to your health. If you've had a cold, or a virus, or someone in your family has been sick please keep in mind that passing this onto Dad can be very serious. Chemotherapy lowers your immune system, and Dad getting an infection now could be very dangerous. Not only could he get very seriously ill, it could delay his chemo and radiation treatment. So one way that you can help Dad is to keep these things in mind when you're going to be around him, and also using the best thing out there, washing your hands or using a hand sanitizer like Purrel.
Thank you so much for your prayers and acts of service to our family and continue on in your prayers!
Please also add our friends the MacDonald's to your prayers right now as Doc is in the hospital right now. Blessings, Joy
Dad is doing good this morning. He said he was less uncomfortable after the radiation treatment than he was on Monday so that's good! Today he will receive his next chemo bag that will last him another week. He will also have his blood checked to keep an eye on his white bloodcell count and his platelet count.
This is a good time to talk to all of you about infection. If you're schedueled to drive, or coming over for a visit please pay special attention to your health. If you've had a cold, or a virus, or someone in your family has been sick please keep in mind that passing this onto Dad can be very serious. Chemotherapy lowers your immune system, and Dad getting an infection now could be very dangerous. Not only could he get very seriously ill, it could delay his chemo and radiation treatment. So one way that you can help Dad is to keep these things in mind when you're going to be around him, and also using the best thing out there, washing your hands or using a hand sanitizer like Purrel.
Thank you so much for your prayers and acts of service to our family and continue on in your prayers!
Please also add our friends the MacDonald's to your prayers right now as Doc is in the hospital right now. Blessings, Joy
Monday, February 5, 2007
Look...
A pretty picture and pretty colours! I figured out how to get both there! I'm learning this blog thing!~A
Monday Report... Tuesday if you're in ON
Hello again,
Dad's treatment tonight went well. Fast and easy but he is having some back pain (from the board that he has to lay on for the treatment). It wasn't too bad by the end of last week but he figures that the two days off of treatments because of the weekend may be what's making it hurt again.
They got to the hospital early and it seems that the staff at the hospital will take you as soon as you get there if they can so mom was saying tonight they were on their way out of the hospital, done the treatment, when dad's appointment was supposed to start! Seeing they are evening appointments and the trip to and from the hospital is about 45 min it helpful to gain any time!
Please contunie to pray for the following:
- Safe travel - dad, mom and the chauffuer of the evening have been very blessed so far with good clear roads!
- Dad's back not to be as painful
- good rest for both mom and dad.
- good strong ammune system - they've really appreciated the phone call recently as it appears there is some sickness going around (It's hit Prince George too) :)
- That the side effects will stay at minamul - Dad's just been tired!
- That mom and dad will contunie to gain confidence in the "home care" end of things!
There's a huge learning curve with processes, precedures, meals etc.
For the Gang ~ Amy
On a side note:It's been amasing to hear how many people of come to the families side in all this! Thank you seems so inadequate but so many times in life words are inadequate... so for lack of words! Thank you from the bottom of our hearts!Amy
Dad's treatment tonight went well. Fast and easy but he is having some back pain (from the board that he has to lay on for the treatment). It wasn't too bad by the end of last week but he figures that the two days off of treatments because of the weekend may be what's making it hurt again.
They got to the hospital early and it seems that the staff at the hospital will take you as soon as you get there if they can so mom was saying tonight they were on their way out of the hospital, done the treatment, when dad's appointment was supposed to start! Seeing they are evening appointments and the trip to and from the hospital is about 45 min it helpful to gain any time!
Please contunie to pray for the following:
- Safe travel - dad, mom and the chauffuer of the evening have been very blessed so far with good clear roads!
- Dad's back not to be as painful
- good rest for both mom and dad.
- good strong ammune system - they've really appreciated the phone call recently as it appears there is some sickness going around (It's hit Prince George too) :)
- That the side effects will stay at minamul - Dad's just been tired!
- That mom and dad will contunie to gain confidence in the "home care" end of things!
There's a huge learning curve with processes, precedures, meals etc.
For the Gang ~ Amy
On a side note:It's been amasing to hear how many people of come to the families side in all this! Thank you seems so inadequate but so many times in life words are inadequate... so for lack of words! Thank you from the bottom of our hearts!Amy
Week Two Starting
Hi everyone! Just thought i'd give a real quick update. There aren't a whole lot of changes so no news is good news right? On tuesday (chemo bottle to be changed on Wednesday) dad begins his second week of chemo and radiation. He seems to be doing quite well which is a huge answer to prayer. Aside from some tiredness and a metalic taste in his mouth with certain foods he isn't really having any side affects. PTL! \o/
According to most of the info we've read it appears that the side affects would be coming after the second week of treatment. So now is the time to begin praying that side affects will be minimal.
A huge thank you to all who have driven mom and dad to Sunnybrook and those of you who bring meals, the cards, the visits..too many to mention! These loving touches that you bring to our lives are SO appreciated. I don't think there is any way we could ever adequately thank you. Please know that you all are loved and appreciated by all of us. ~Joy
According to most of the info we've read it appears that the side affects would be coming after the second week of treatment. So now is the time to begin praying that side affects will be minimal.
A huge thank you to all who have driven mom and dad to Sunnybrook and those of you who bring meals, the cards, the visits..too many to mention! These loving touches that you bring to our lives are SO appreciated. I don't think there is any way we could ever adequately thank you. Please know that you all are loved and appreciated by all of us. ~Joy
Thursday, February 1, 2007
It's your Birthday.. It's your Birthday!!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD!!!
I guess it's time I (Joy) took up my fair share and posted an update. Amy's been doing such a fabulous job it was easy just to sit back and let her do it! :D
We talked to mom and dad quite early this morning (sorry for the wake up call!) In our family there's a silly little tradition of a phonecall in the morning and the traditional singing of "happy birthday to you" sung with glorious morning voices and as on key as we can manage.
Dad is doing well and so is mom, thank you so much for your prayers!!!
He had his second radiation treatment last night and he said that he wasn't as uncomfortable this time afterwards. He has to lay face down on a hard table for 15 minutes and it really seemed to bother his back the first time. Please continue to pray for the requests that Amy mentioned in her last post.
A few to add are:
- our friends Doc and Pat in North Carolina.
- success for mom and dad in learning how to care for the colostomy
If you'd like to learn more about what a PICC line is you can go here to see: http://www.cancerbackup.org.uk/Treatments/Chemotherapy/Linesports/PICCline
Have a blessed day, and remember, you can always leave a birthday message here for dad! ~JOY
I guess it's time I (Joy) took up my fair share and posted an update. Amy's been doing such a fabulous job it was easy just to sit back and let her do it! :D
We talked to mom and dad quite early this morning (sorry for the wake up call!) In our family there's a silly little tradition of a phonecall in the morning and the traditional singing of "happy birthday to you" sung with glorious morning voices and as on key as we can manage.
Dad is doing well and so is mom, thank you so much for your prayers!!!
He had his second radiation treatment last night and he said that he wasn't as uncomfortable this time afterwards. He has to lay face down on a hard table for 15 minutes and it really seemed to bother his back the first time. Please continue to pray for the requests that Amy mentioned in her last post.
A few to add are:
- our friends Doc and Pat in North Carolina.
- success for mom and dad in learning how to care for the colostomy
If you'd like to learn more about what a PICC line is you can go here to see: http://www.cancerbackup.org.uk/Treatments/Chemotherapy/Linesports/PICCline
Have a blessed day, and remember, you can always leave a birthday message here for dad! ~JOY
Wednesday, January 31, 2007
Treatments have started...
Treatments have startedWell, yesterday morning dad got the chemo bottle (more a bag) attached to the PIC line. I've been trying to do some research on what that really is but haven't been too successful. But I know that it is 47 cm long and is inserted in Dad's arm just above the elbow and goes into his shoulder area. The bottle that was hooked up yesterday will last for 8 days and then he will have to go and get a new one. And from that bottle on it will be changed every 7 days for up to 6 weeks. Radiation treatments started in TO last night as well. Everything seemed to go well and on the way home dad was even feeling up to a Tim Horton's stop so that's good.
Just as a reminder those treatments will be week nights for up to six weeks.Thanks again to all that offered to drive to appointments. There is a schedule that is good for the next week or so but we still have the names of those who offered and we'll give you a call when there is an openning! Right now we have a bunch of retired men doing the driving for this week at least. Today a nurse was coming to check on that chemo bag!
Specific Prayer Requests:
- strength
- quick reduction in size of the tumor
- safety for mom - she's helping dad a lot and the doctors have mentioned that they are not 100% sure of how chemo/radiation will react to her
- safety for trips to and from TO
- good rest and good health for Dad
- Complete Healing!!! - whatever that looks like! :)
Again thank you so much for your partnership thru all this it has been amazing!
Don't forget you can leave messages on either the carepages or the blog and we'll make sure that Dad and Mom get them!
Amy ~ on behalf of the crew!
PRAISE
They have gotten the right equipment sent lately and now mom and dad will get to use disposible rather than re-usable... :)
Just as a reminder those treatments will be week nights for up to six weeks.Thanks again to all that offered to drive to appointments. There is a schedule that is good for the next week or so but we still have the names of those who offered and we'll give you a call when there is an openning! Right now we have a bunch of retired men doing the driving for this week at least. Today a nurse was coming to check on that chemo bag!
Specific Prayer Requests:
- strength
- quick reduction in size of the tumor
- safety for mom - she's helping dad a lot and the doctors have mentioned that they are not 100% sure of how chemo/radiation will react to her
- safety for trips to and from TO
- good rest and good health for Dad
- Complete Healing!!! - whatever that looks like! :)
Again thank you so much for your partnership thru all this it has been amazing!
Don't forget you can leave messages on either the carepages or the blog and we'll make sure that Dad and Mom get them!
Amy ~ on behalf of the crew!
PRAISE
They have gotten the right equipment sent lately and now mom and dad will get to use disposible rather than re-usable... :)
Monday, January 29, 2007
Tomorrow
Well, tomorrow is the big day! The start day of daily Chemo in the morning and Radiation treatments in the evening. We know that we have the Great Physian on our side but please pray for calm nervous, easy process and the doctors and nurses involved. Pray for steady hands and peacefully hearts!
Also, know that we all appreciate your thoughts and prayers. It's hard to believe that it's been almost 6 weeks since we found out about the cancer. It already feels like its been much longer but it has been so encouraging to know that as a family we are not going through this alone. Thank you to friends and family that have been there thru laughter and tears. Thanks to those that have helped to distract (one that comes to mind is shoveling pathways for the mail lady) guests and unexpected meals, and those that have been there to listen and those who have just been there in the silent times! You are all greatly appreciated! And thanks for partnering with us on this journey. Like all journeys it has its up and downs but we have not felt alone yet! :)Thanks for joining with us in our quest that we don't understand but trust that God's got it all under control! I'll try and let you know how things goes tomorrow as soon as I know!
Amy for the crew...
Also, know that we all appreciate your thoughts and prayers. It's hard to believe that it's been almost 6 weeks since we found out about the cancer. It already feels like its been much longer but it has been so encouraging to know that as a family we are not going through this alone. Thank you to friends and family that have been there thru laughter and tears. Thanks to those that have helped to distract (one that comes to mind is shoveling pathways for the mail lady) guests and unexpected meals, and those that have been there to listen and those who have just been there in the silent times! You are all greatly appreciated! And thanks for partnering with us on this journey. Like all journeys it has its up and downs but we have not felt alone yet! :)Thanks for joining with us in our quest that we don't understand but trust that God's got it all under control! I'll try and let you know how things goes tomorrow as soon as I know!
Amy for the crew...
Sunday, January 28, 2007
Sunday Report
Hello to all that check this regularly...
I am just talking to mom now and there really isn't anything new to report. Appointments are coming up quickly... so is Dad's birthday for that matter... it's February 1st!
Mom was saying that Dad's arm has been much better. The doctors haven't been concerned about it but Praise God its been better as that means that Dad can sleep better.
But yeah that's all for today!
Thanks for your prayers!
Amy for all!!!
I am just talking to mom now and there really isn't anything new to report. Appointments are coming up quickly... so is Dad's birthday for that matter... it's February 1st!
Mom was saying that Dad's arm has been much better. The doctors haven't been concerned about it but Praise God its been better as that means that Dad can sleep better.
But yeah that's all for today!
Thanks for your prayers!
Amy for all!!!
Thursday, January 25, 2007
Today's Report
Today's Report...Dad has been having a pain in his right arm mostly at night that goes down his arm and then into his hand and his finger goes numb. They have told the doctor and nurses and they don't seem to be concerned.
One new date to add to the schedule
- January 29th Dad is going for blood work and the will meet with Dr. Chan.
So you can be praying for those too things!Thanks again friends and family!
Amy
One new date to add to the schedule
- January 29th Dad is going for blood work and the will meet with Dr. Chan.
So you can be praying for those too things!Thanks again friends and family!
Amy
Tuesday, January 23, 2007
New Dates and Times
Appointment today went well. The pic line for the chemo bottle wasn't put in - it will be put in January 30th at 7:45 am. Dad's first radiation treatment is that evening. Once chemo starts the nrse said that dad will be very suseptable to germs and viruses so they will have to be very careful. They were told that if at any point dad gets a fever they MUST proceed immeditately to the ER and when they get there tell them that dad is on chemo treatments so that they don't have to wait with all people with germs. So that's a prayer request - pray that dad will not get sick while he is on chemo and radiation.
Tomorrow is going to be an early start for them... well earlier than it has been in a while as the nurse is doing a home visit and she'll be there at 8m. Mom said that they haven't had many early mornings lately. :)
But that's all for this evening!Night all!
Amy
Tomorrow is going to be an early start for them... well earlier than it has been in a while as the nurse is doing a home visit and she'll be there at 8m. Mom said that they haven't had many early mornings lately. :)
But that's all for this evening!Night all!
Amy
Monday, January 22, 2007
Another Monday Update
Well, Mom and Dad had a good weekend. There were lots of visits and the phone still rings often with friends and family checking up on them.
I talked to dad today and he is really, really, REALLY bored. Apparently, while we were talking, he was wondering around in the garage looking for something for the trailer hitch on the van. He is being careful though. While I was on the phone with him he was looking a a heavier bag and made a good decision not to try and move to. It's a good thing that it's not too cold out there. Aunt Joyce and Uncle Charles were coming to visit this afternoon and when I tried to call a little bit ago there was no answer, which is a good sign seeing it means that they are out of the house.
Tomorrow's appointment is to deal with the chemo bottle. Dad says that it is to find out about it and I thought that mom said that it is getting hooked up tomorrow.
So yeah that's the info I have!
Specific Prayer Requests:
- That the chemo and radiation treatments work quickly, shrink the tumor so they can get it out ASAP
- Wisdom for the doctors
- Safe travel to and from appointments
- Creative Ideas for Dad - so that he won't be too bored
Isn't it great though that we have the Great Phyisian on our side?!?
That's about all from here for now.
Thanks again for your thoughts and prayers.
Amy
I talked to dad today and he is really, really, REALLY bored. Apparently, while we were talking, he was wondering around in the garage looking for something for the trailer hitch on the van. He is being careful though. While I was on the phone with him he was looking a a heavier bag and made a good decision not to try and move to. It's a good thing that it's not too cold out there. Aunt Joyce and Uncle Charles were coming to visit this afternoon and when I tried to call a little bit ago there was no answer, which is a good sign seeing it means that they are out of the house.
Tomorrow's appointment is to deal with the chemo bottle. Dad says that it is to find out about it and I thought that mom said that it is getting hooked up tomorrow.
So yeah that's the info I have!
Specific Prayer Requests:
- That the chemo and radiation treatments work quickly, shrink the tumor so they can get it out ASAP
- Wisdom for the doctors
- Safe travel to and from appointments
- Creative Ideas for Dad - so that he won't be too bored
Isn't it great though that we have the Great Phyisian on our side?!?
That's about all from here for now.
Thanks again for your thoughts and prayers.
Amy
Saturday, January 20, 2007
just a little more...
A little more info...
Some up coming Important dates:
January 23 - Chemo appointment
January 30 - Radiation treatments
~Amy
Some up coming Important dates:
January 23 - Chemo appointment
January 30 - Radiation treatments
~Amy
Updating Again
Hi All,
Well, I Have made it back to the land of the internet on demand...
I talked to Dad on Thurday and he was feeling quite discouraged. (you can pray about that). And on top of all the apointments he got a notice that it was time to renew his bus licence. As he can't drive (which for anyone who knows him knows that alone could drive him crazy) he has to let his bus licence expire and then go and retake it when he can drive again!
They have hooked up the chemo bottle and yesterday (friday) they were up had their first out of town appointment. It was about an hour and a half and dad got tatoos - the doctors marked where the treatments will be administered. It sounded like things went okay but both mom and dad were tired.
Specific Requests:
- Dad to not be discouraged.
- Rest - both mom and dad seem tired!
- Strength and energy for both mom and dad
- The chemo and radiation will work quickly and that there wouldn't be any strange side affects.
- Safety in travelling to and from appointments
- Peace anda calmness that can only come from God
A few of the things that have encouraged Mom and Dad:
- Great doctors and nurses at all stages so far
- How the Church (across the country and around the world) has come together in prayer
- Family and Friends that have called
- Family and friends that have been able to visit
- The notes and cards that have come
- The meals that have been given
i just tired to get a hold of mom and dad and there was no answer so I will try again later and update this again!
Amy
Well, I Have made it back to the land of the internet on demand...
I talked to Dad on Thurday and he was feeling quite discouraged. (you can pray about that). And on top of all the apointments he got a notice that it was time to renew his bus licence. As he can't drive (which for anyone who knows him knows that alone could drive him crazy) he has to let his bus licence expire and then go and retake it when he can drive again!
They have hooked up the chemo bottle and yesterday (friday) they were up had their first out of town appointment. It was about an hour and a half and dad got tatoos - the doctors marked where the treatments will be administered. It sounded like things went okay but both mom and dad were tired.
Specific Requests:
- Dad to not be discouraged.
- Rest - both mom and dad seem tired!
- Strength and energy for both mom and dad
- The chemo and radiation will work quickly and that there wouldn't be any strange side affects.
- Safety in travelling to and from appointments
- Peace anda calmness that can only come from God
A few of the things that have encouraged Mom and Dad:
- Great doctors and nurses at all stages so far
- How the Church (across the country and around the world) has come together in prayer
- Family and Friends that have called
- Family and friends that have been able to visit
- The notes and cards that have come
- The meals that have been given
i just tired to get a hold of mom and dad and there was no answer so I will try again later and update this again!
Amy
Wednesday, January 17, 2007
Update from Here
Hello All,Well, I did post that last one yesterday but apparently did it wrong so now there are two today... Joy is out of the country and I was just out to lunch... well really I'm out of the city at pastor's retreat!I talked to mom today. After appointments they have found out that they have to wait to find out when the chemo and radiation treatments will start. They will run at the same time one in town and one in TO. Friends have offered to set up a schedule for those who have offered to help with driving. So you will hear from someone. Chemo and radiation will run at the same time and for 25-30 days, Monday to Friday. They have been told that there really aren't too many side effects to the treatments. There may be tiredness as well as "some extra trips to the bathroom." Dad is really getting VERY bored and today he even went outside to do some, as mom put it, "puttering." Mom and Dad are both very thankful for the cards, phone calls, visits and meals. But yeah, I think that I should go there is a guy here that has questions for me. So thanks, for your prayers we all appreciate them.
Amy for the family
Amy for the family
Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Update ... finally
Sorry, everyone for not updating this sooner but Sunday i had a migraine (not so good at all) and then yesterday we left PG for our district retreat and i didn't find this little room stuck in the basement corner of our hotel until it was too late and then there are 2 computers for all billion guests! good grief.
But i did talk to mom yesterday. The nurse has been coming in and dad's blodd pressure was low the last few times but they aren't too worried because they figure that it is because he hasn't been drinking even fuilds.. so it's an easier fix. Wrong supplies have been arriving so that's kinda furstration.
Dad has an appointment today to set up his other appointments but I haven't heard from mom yet so hopefully tomorrow i will be able to uypdate you on that
Specific Prayer requests:
- Pray the supplies that come will be the right ones.
- Dad's getting bored... anyone that knows my father knows that he likes to be doing stuff and right now he can't and he's starting to get cabin fever.
- Pray for mom too pray that they will not drive each other crazy! (if you are in the area i'm sure they would love a call and maybe even a visit... just call first to set up a time as dad still need rest!!!
- And as you have been i'm sure continue to pray for healing.
But like i said there are 2 computers for a bizzionane people and i am sure there is a line forming!
Thanks for your prayers!
Amy for the fam.
But i did talk to mom yesterday. The nurse has been coming in and dad's blodd pressure was low the last few times but they aren't too worried because they figure that it is because he hasn't been drinking even fuilds.. so it's an easier fix. Wrong supplies have been arriving so that's kinda furstration.
Dad has an appointment today to set up his other appointments but I haven't heard from mom yet so hopefully tomorrow i will be able to uypdate you on that
Specific Prayer requests:
- Pray the supplies that come will be the right ones.
- Dad's getting bored... anyone that knows my father knows that he likes to be doing stuff and right now he can't and he's starting to get cabin fever.
- Pray for mom too pray that they will not drive each other crazy! (if you are in the area i'm sure they would love a call and maybe even a visit... just call first to set up a time as dad still need rest!!!
- And as you have been i'm sure continue to pray for healing.
But like i said there are 2 computers for a bizzionane people and i am sure there is a line forming!
Thanks for your prayers!
Amy for the fam.
Saturday, January 13, 2007
Saturday Update
I'm talking to mom right now and typing while she talks...
Mom says,
"After being discharged at 10:45am yesterday morning, Rick had a few visitors that were picked up around town and that dropped in. I got to do some running around too. Thanks, Lois! And thanks to Terry and Bertie for "babysitting" while Lois and I were out getting some things that will be needed around here for the next little while.
We made it thru the first night at home and we're able to take care the colostomy. the nurse approved! The nurse came this morning and helped us with some of the new procedures that we will eventally have to do on our own. She also brought the right supplies (when he left the hospital they sent him with the wrong things). The nurse approved of our work on our own but she will still be visiting everyday just to check up on us.
Next week will be appointments (January 17, 18 at the oncology Clinic here in town to set up out of town appointments for Chemo and Radiation. (Appointments for appointments good grief).
Yesterday, Rick realized that he is going to need to take naps during the day until his energy is back up. He was in bed at about 6pm and only up for a short time between 11 and 12 and then back to bed. So we're going to have get use to a new routine! We've appreciated all the calls that we have gotten even since we've been home! Thank you mostly for all your prayers."
So there you have it! He's home and doing well and mom's not going crazy, yet!!!
Amy
Mom says,
"After being discharged at 10:45am yesterday morning, Rick had a few visitors that were picked up around town and that dropped in. I got to do some running around too. Thanks, Lois! And thanks to Terry and Bertie for "babysitting" while Lois and I were out getting some things that will be needed around here for the next little while.
We made it thru the first night at home and we're able to take care the colostomy. the nurse approved! The nurse came this morning and helped us with some of the new procedures that we will eventally have to do on our own. She also brought the right supplies (when he left the hospital they sent him with the wrong things). The nurse approved of our work on our own but she will still be visiting everyday just to check up on us.
Next week will be appointments (January 17, 18 at the oncology Clinic here in town to set up out of town appointments for Chemo and Radiation. (Appointments for appointments good grief).
Yesterday, Rick realized that he is going to need to take naps during the day until his energy is back up. He was in bed at about 6pm and only up for a short time between 11 and 12 and then back to bed. So we're going to have get use to a new routine! We've appreciated all the calls that we have gotten even since we've been home! Thank you mostly for all your prayers."
So there you have it! He's home and doing well and mom's not going crazy, yet!!!
Amy
Friday, January 12, 2007
He's Home
Dad was, as Joy put it, booted out this morning!
January 12, 2007 at 10:58 AM EST
HE'S OUT!!! WOOWHOO! Thank you Lord! Daddy called me at 10:45 from his cellphone to let me know they gave him the boot this morning. The Doctor said that "nothing had changed" after looking at the CAT scan. So i don't know if that's good news or not. Thank you for your prayers! Now there is a long road ahead of Dad (and the rest of the family too) but we've reached one mile stone. Now to tackle the rest! ~Joy
January 12, 2007 at 10:58 AM EST
HE'S OUT!!! WOOWHOO! Thank you Lord! Daddy called me at 10:45 from his cellphone to let me know they gave him the boot this morning. The Doctor said that "nothing had changed" after looking at the CAT scan. So i don't know if that's good news or not. Thank you for your prayers! Now there is a long road ahead of Dad (and the rest of the family too) but we've reached one mile stone. Now to tackle the rest! ~Joy
Thursday, January 11, 2007
Update 2 for today
Well, when I talked to mom last night she was hoping that dad wasn't getting is hopes up too much about coming home. Amy
as ofJanuary 11, 2007 at 04:43 PM EST
Hi Everyone! Just a super quick update. As of right now dad has not come home. He had his CAT scan as scheuled and we've sat around all day waiting for the Doctor to get the results and tell us whether or not we could leave. So, it kind of feels like a bit of a waiting game. I'm a bit disappointed that i didn't get to see dad come home before i left. But he is doing so much better, he's up and walking around, even going off to other hospital rooms to have visits! He's using very minimal pain relief and is looking fabulous. I know this is all thanks to your prayers and an Awesome Amazing Great Physician. Joy
as ofJanuary 11, 2007 at 04:43 PM EST
Hi Everyone! Just a super quick update. As of right now dad has not come home. He had his CAT scan as scheuled and we've sat around all day waiting for the Doctor to get the results and tell us whether or not we could leave. So, it kind of feels like a bit of a waiting game. I'm a bit disappointed that i didn't get to see dad come home before i left. But he is doing so much better, he's up and walking around, even going off to other hospital rooms to have visits! He's using very minimal pain relief and is looking fabulous. I know this is all thanks to your prayers and an Awesome Amazing Great Physician. Joy
January 11 update
I talked to dad last night and he as Joy mentioned he was very happy about the whole real food thing. Apparently he had fish and potatoes and squash! He sounds like he's doing really well! Everytime, to him he let's me know who's visited! He really appreciates the company!
But here's Joy's update too!
Amy
January 11, 2007 at 05:05 AM EST
He might be coming home!!!!! Ohhhh yesterday was a good day! Dad got to eat REAL FOOD! Yup, REAL FOOD! He's feeling hungry now and enjoying his real food. His CAT scan is scheduled for 9am and it's very likely that they're kicking him out tomorrow after that. Ohhh that would make me VERY happy to have him settled in before I left. Dad got his staples taken out today. 36 of them, can you believe it?? The nurse was even going to let me take out one (i really like playing doctor!) but she forgot to leave one for me. Oh well, maybe next time. Besides, i don't know how confident Dad was in letting me remove a staple from his tummy. So all in all, it was a good day. I'll let you all know if dad is released today or not as soon as I can. Be Blessed, and continue to pray!! Joy
But here's Joy's update too!
Amy
January 11, 2007 at 05:05 AM EST
He might be coming home!!!!! Ohhhh yesterday was a good day! Dad got to eat REAL FOOD! Yup, REAL FOOD! He's feeling hungry now and enjoying his real food. His CAT scan is scheduled for 9am and it's very likely that they're kicking him out tomorrow after that. Ohhh that would make me VERY happy to have him settled in before I left. Dad got his staples taken out today. 36 of them, can you believe it?? The nurse was even going to let me take out one (i really like playing doctor!) but she forgot to leave one for me. Oh well, maybe next time. Besides, i don't know how confident Dad was in letting me remove a staple from his tummy. So all in all, it was a good day. I'll let you all know if dad is released today or not as soon as I can. Be Blessed, and continue to pray!! Joy
Wednesday, January 10, 2007
Update 8-I think!
January 10, 2006
Good Morning!! We received an early morning wakeup call from Dad this morning. I think mom and I are getting a bit spoiled being together in the mornings and a tiny little sleep in is always nice! Dad will be having his CAT scan tomorrow, so please pray that everything looks good. The doctor also mentioned starting Radiation as early as January 17th. Could those ofyou that have mentioned helping out by driving please contact us? The time to be at the hospital will be between 6-9pm Monday-Friday. Dad got a new roommate yesterday, Woody has the same thing as dad minus the colostomy. He's a Seventh Day Adventist and enjoys talking about religon with Dad. Ohhh it's good to see God work!! :D Dad's on full solids now and is thuroughly enjoying his milk and puddings and mousses! Next step..SOLIDS!! Thank you for your prayers, they mean the world to us!! Joy
Good Morning!! We received an early morning wakeup call from Dad this morning. I think mom and I are getting a bit spoiled being together in the mornings and a tiny little sleep in is always nice! Dad will be having his CAT scan tomorrow, so please pray that everything looks good. The doctor also mentioned starting Radiation as early as January 17th. Could those ofyou that have mentioned helping out by driving please contact us? The time to be at the hospital will be between 6-9pm Monday-Friday. Dad got a new roommate yesterday, Woody has the same thing as dad minus the colostomy. He's a Seventh Day Adventist and enjoys talking about religon with Dad. Ohhh it's good to see God work!! :D Dad's on full solids now and is thuroughly enjoying his milk and puddings and mousses! Next step..SOLIDS!! Thank you for your prayers, they mean the world to us!! Joy
Monday, January 8, 2007
update 6&7
Wow Sunday's are crazy... Sorry that you are getting two at a time these days!
Amy
January 08, 2007 at 10:55 AM EST
Good Morning! Just giving a quick update as it's hard to have a lot to say when you're not there seeing it in person. The problem I asked you all to pray about last night appears to be better this morning. They're also starting to see that other things are improving as well. Dad's going to be going for an ultrasound soon just to take a peek and make sure everything is doing well. He's sitting up for longer periods of time, and although it does tire him out quickly the length of time is improving daily. I cannot describe to you how important your prayers are!! I know that these days the urgency to pray is stronger than it has ever been in my life. I know that others are praying as well and this is what is helping to keep my spirit at rest. Please continue in your prayers, they are what is making the difference!! ~Joy
January 07, 2007 at 03:05 PM EST
Just posting a quick prayer request. In trying to be discrete I won't say exactly what's going on. Dad's having a side affect of the operation that they say is on the side of normal, but it is concerning to us. God knows exactly what is going on and is in control, GLORY! Also, please pray that there is soon "proof" of a healthy colon so that dad can start eatting soon. Thank you to all the Saints that continue to pray daily and leave messages to us. You have no idea what your encouragements mean to us!
Joy
Amy
January 08, 2007 at 10:55 AM EST
Good Morning! Just giving a quick update as it's hard to have a lot to say when you're not there seeing it in person. The problem I asked you all to pray about last night appears to be better this morning. They're also starting to see that other things are improving as well. Dad's going to be going for an ultrasound soon just to take a peek and make sure everything is doing well. He's sitting up for longer periods of time, and although it does tire him out quickly the length of time is improving daily. I cannot describe to you how important your prayers are!! I know that these days the urgency to pray is stronger than it has ever been in my life. I know that others are praying as well and this is what is helping to keep my spirit at rest. Please continue in your prayers, they are what is making the difference!! ~Joy
January 07, 2007 at 03:05 PM EST
Just posting a quick prayer request. In trying to be discrete I won't say exactly what's going on. Dad's having a side affect of the operation that they say is on the side of normal, but it is concerning to us. God knows exactly what is going on and is in control, GLORY! Also, please pray that there is soon "proof" of a healthy colon so that dad can start eatting soon. Thank you to all the Saints that continue to pray daily and leave messages to us. You have no idea what your encouragements mean to us!
Joy
Saturday, January 6, 2007
Update 4 & 5 - i think
January 06, 2007 at 08:49 AM EST
Just a quick one here that i forgot. For those of you that were into see dad before yesterday, he has changed rooms. Be sure to check with the front desk or the floor nurses station to find him! Also, a big thank you to Glenn for dropping off the print outs of the carepage. Dad really enjoyed reading your messages. Please continue to leave him messages and above all PRAY!! Joy
Just a NOTE: The reason for the room change was that when he went upstairs there were only ward rooms available (5 roomates) but because of work benefits he is actually eligiable for a semi-private. He didn't want to move at first because he like the nurses but the nurses he had changed so when a semi-private came available they moved him! He's still got a window seat... wow that's my airline talk coming out now isn't it?!?
January 05, 2007 at 11:09 PM EST
Today was a good day. Thank you Jesus! Dad's epidural came out this morning and guess what! He had no pain meds until 4pm! And even then it was at his daughter's nagging that he didn't want to let the pain get too bad and get away from him before taking the meds. I know it must be from the prayers. We were able to take a good look at the incision today since the dressing was removed. He has at least 20 staples and the colostomy. HOW after only 3 days can he be having such little discomfort? It HAS be the prayers being shot up from around the world. Another praise, Dad got to eat today!!! A lovely gourmet meal of broth, jello and juice..YUMMY! :D He's also having bowel sounds!! So yes, it was indeed a good day. It's looking very likely that dad's radiation will be beginning in as little as 3 weeks. If you would like to minister to Dad by driving to appointments out of town even once, or possibly committing to 1 day/week we'd love to hear from you. The kids and I will be heading home tomorrow. I know it's going to be very hard to leave dad and mom, but we do need to get these kids ready to head back to school and get some much needed grocery shopping and laundry done. Oh, and I think Dan might miss us a little bit too. Continue on in your prayers..they ARE working! Remember to thank God as well!
Praise:
- Dad is healing fast..it looks incredible!
- Bowel sounds are happening
- He's getting to eat
- He was able to sit up more easily today, and standing was easier.
- Our spirits are up
Prayer request
- continue to pray against infection
- that dad's strength would continue to grow
- continue to pray for complete healing and restoration.
Thank you to all who pray daily. We know without a doubt it is making all the difference in the world!! ~Joy
Just a quick one here that i forgot. For those of you that were into see dad before yesterday, he has changed rooms. Be sure to check with the front desk or the floor nurses station to find him! Also, a big thank you to Glenn for dropping off the print outs of the carepage. Dad really enjoyed reading your messages. Please continue to leave him messages and above all PRAY!! Joy
Just a NOTE: The reason for the room change was that when he went upstairs there were only ward rooms available (5 roomates) but because of work benefits he is actually eligiable for a semi-private. He didn't want to move at first because he like the nurses but the nurses he had changed so when a semi-private came available they moved him! He's still got a window seat... wow that's my airline talk coming out now isn't it?!?
January 05, 2007 at 11:09 PM EST
Today was a good day. Thank you Jesus! Dad's epidural came out this morning and guess what! He had no pain meds until 4pm! And even then it was at his daughter's nagging that he didn't want to let the pain get too bad and get away from him before taking the meds. I know it must be from the prayers. We were able to take a good look at the incision today since the dressing was removed. He has at least 20 staples and the colostomy. HOW after only 3 days can he be having such little discomfort? It HAS be the prayers being shot up from around the world. Another praise, Dad got to eat today!!! A lovely gourmet meal of broth, jello and juice..YUMMY! :D He's also having bowel sounds!! So yes, it was indeed a good day. It's looking very likely that dad's radiation will be beginning in as little as 3 weeks. If you would like to minister to Dad by driving to appointments out of town even once, or possibly committing to 1 day/week we'd love to hear from you. The kids and I will be heading home tomorrow. I know it's going to be very hard to leave dad and mom, but we do need to get these kids ready to head back to school and get some much needed grocery shopping and laundry done. Oh, and I think Dan might miss us a little bit too. Continue on in your prayers..they ARE working! Remember to thank God as well!
Praise:
- Dad is healing fast..it looks incredible!
- Bowel sounds are happening
- He's getting to eat
- He was able to sit up more easily today, and standing was easier.
- Our spirits are up
Prayer request
- continue to pray against infection
- that dad's strength would continue to grow
- continue to pray for complete healing and restoration.
Thank you to all who pray daily. We know without a doubt it is making all the difference in the world!! ~Joy
Friday, January 5, 2007
I feel a little helpless in adding anything intelligent to these! Isn't Joy doing great!?!?~ A
January 05, 2007 at 08:34 AM EST
Hi Everyone!! I'm sorry that i didn't update last night. Mom and I got home from the hospital around 8:45, returned a few phonecalls then I crashed out on the couch. I'm pretty sure my mom has super human strength as she stayed awake for a few more hours. However, she is still asleep so i'm letting her sleep in. All in all yesterday was a good day. Dad seems to have a bit more strength as he was able to pull himself up in the bed easier. He got a quick visit from the doctor and was told that radiation may begin in as little as 2-3 weeks. They hope to start dad on a liquid diet soon but they need to hear bowel sounds and see some gas/air in his colostomy bag. Until then, it's just ice chips. He's still on the epidural for pain and that will probably be stopped today or tomorrow. So continue to pray for that. He sat up in the chair for a tiny bit yesterday maybe 5 minutes or so and that took a lot out of him. But he did have quite a few guests yesterday, and then got all cleaned up, so i'm sure he was pretty tired to begin with. I hope they try to get him up in the chair earlier in the day today when he's feeling well rested. Mom and Dad's moods seemed really good yesterday. Mom even commented that "today didn't feel as bad as yesterday". I'm praying that we can all say that every day. Dad seems to be accepting things which can be a really hard thing to do. We talked for a bit yesterday and I was telling mom and dad how when Dan and I went through a really rough patch for 2 years many well meaning Christians would say "God won't give you anymore than you can handle" and I'd think to myself "well, What's wrong with ME then, cuz i AIN'T handling this!". I asked a good friend of mine where it said this in the scriptures and he told me no where! God says that we won't be TEMPTED beyond what we can handle. Then he told me the most amazing thing. God will CONTINUALLY give us more than we can handle, because if we could handle it we wouldn't need God. When the troubles in your life have passed GOD will have the glory, not us because people around us will know that there's no way we could have done it on our own, only God. It's to give Him the Glory. When i finished sharing this with mom and dad, mom said "and that's Joy's sermon for the day! (smile)" I guess there's more than one preacher in the family :D Please continue to pray: - for no infection - for the "swimminess" in dad's head to go away so that he can be upright for longer periods. This is good for his lungs to not be laying down so much. - this one will sound a bit funny..but for Dad to begin passing gas, I know I've never prayed for that before! He needs to start having some gas in his colostomy bag to prove that his bowels are working then he can start having fluids. - continue to pray for healing. We know that God can choose to perform a miracle in this situation, so we will continue to ask Him for one. Your prayers, messages and visits mean so much to all of us. To know that there are literally people around the WORLD praying for Dad is an incredible feeling. Thank you to all the Saints that continue to hold our family up in prayer. ~Joy (on behalf of the whole family)
January 05, 2007 at 08:34 AM EST
Hi Everyone!! I'm sorry that i didn't update last night. Mom and I got home from the hospital around 8:45, returned a few phonecalls then I crashed out on the couch. I'm pretty sure my mom has super human strength as she stayed awake for a few more hours. However, she is still asleep so i'm letting her sleep in. All in all yesterday was a good day. Dad seems to have a bit more strength as he was able to pull himself up in the bed easier. He got a quick visit from the doctor and was told that radiation may begin in as little as 2-3 weeks. They hope to start dad on a liquid diet soon but they need to hear bowel sounds and see some gas/air in his colostomy bag. Until then, it's just ice chips. He's still on the epidural for pain and that will probably be stopped today or tomorrow. So continue to pray for that. He sat up in the chair for a tiny bit yesterday maybe 5 minutes or so and that took a lot out of him. But he did have quite a few guests yesterday, and then got all cleaned up, so i'm sure he was pretty tired to begin with. I hope they try to get him up in the chair earlier in the day today when he's feeling well rested. Mom and Dad's moods seemed really good yesterday. Mom even commented that "today didn't feel as bad as yesterday". I'm praying that we can all say that every day. Dad seems to be accepting things which can be a really hard thing to do. We talked for a bit yesterday and I was telling mom and dad how when Dan and I went through a really rough patch for 2 years many well meaning Christians would say "God won't give you anymore than you can handle" and I'd think to myself "well, What's wrong with ME then, cuz i AIN'T handling this!". I asked a good friend of mine where it said this in the scriptures and he told me no where! God says that we won't be TEMPTED beyond what we can handle. Then he told me the most amazing thing. God will CONTINUALLY give us more than we can handle, because if we could handle it we wouldn't need God. When the troubles in your life have passed GOD will have the glory, not us because people around us will know that there's no way we could have done it on our own, only God. It's to give Him the Glory. When i finished sharing this with mom and dad, mom said "and that's Joy's sermon for the day! (smile)" I guess there's more than one preacher in the family :D Please continue to pray: - for no infection - for the "swimminess" in dad's head to go away so that he can be upright for longer periods. This is good for his lungs to not be laying down so much. - this one will sound a bit funny..but for Dad to begin passing gas, I know I've never prayed for that before! He needs to start having some gas in his colostomy bag to prove that his bowels are working then he can start having fluids. - continue to pray for healing. We know that God can choose to perform a miracle in this situation, so we will continue to ask Him for one. Your prayers, messages and visits mean so much to all of us. To know that there are literally people around the WORLD praying for Dad is an incredible feeling. Thank you to all the Saints that continue to hold our family up in prayer. ~Joy (on behalf of the whole family)
Thursday, January 4, 2007
Update 3
This is Joy's next update. It's hard to be so far away. You'll probably see more entries with her name since she's getting the info right from the source so why change a good thing, right?
*** remember some info in this is more general because a blog is more public then the Carepages... if you want to check out carepages.com and become a member or email either of us that works too!
Amy
January 04, 2007 at 12:10 AM EST
Another busy day is drawing to a close. I guess you could say that today was a good day. Compared to the shock of yesterday today has seemed rather peaceful. Dad is doing as well as can be expected. He had quite a lot of awake time today and seems to be in excellent spirits. They had him sitting up on the edge of the bed this morning and attempted to have him stand up but this made his head rather "swimmy" so he was quickly tucked back into bed. He is experiencing alot of sweating and the nurses think it is a side affect of the medication in his epidural. The incision and colostomy appear to be healing well so all is looking good so far. We have all been overwhelmed and humbled by the many offers made by all of you regarding any type of help we may need. It is so wonderful to see the family of God surrounding our family in such a loving and compassionate way. As of right now we have no immediate needs (what a wonderful blessing that is!) and trust me when I say we're not trying to be heros and "doing it all ourselves". We're keeping things rather low key and simple and just focusing on eachother, Dad and of course God. The biggest need we forsee in the future will be needing people to drive Dad to Sunnybrook for his radiation treatments. The timing of this is unknown as it will depend on how fast he heals from this surgery. If you feel that is a way you could minister to dad please feel free to leave a message here and we will keep a list and let you know the dates as soon as WE know. Well, I guess that's about it for today. Thanks to all of you who dropped by the hospital to visit, I know it sure picks up Mom and Dad's spirits too. Several of you have asked how you can specifically pray for Dad so here's the list. - dad will be coming off the epidural either tomorrow or the next day. Pray that his pain will be minimized and that the narcotics given will be effective. - that he will be able to cough deeply to help clear his lungs and prevent pnemonia - that dad's body will be healed and completely restored to health. - that any kind of infection will be avoided especially with the colostomy In closing I'd like to ask for some prayer for me as well. I feel guilty that I'm "hijacking" this post but I sure would appreciate prayer. I'm trying to decided what the next week to week and a half looks like for me and my family. My heart wants to stay here with Mom and Dad and help to take care of things but in reality there are things that need to be taken care of back home in West Lorne. Please pray that I can make the right decisions as to what to do. Continue on in your prayers as this is the way that the Battle will truly be won..... remember.. "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. " Ephesians 6:12&13 Although Dad's battle appears to be a battle of the flesh (cancer) lets not forget that the battle is also spiritual. But, like the praise song says "In heavenly armor we'll enter the land, the battle belongs to the LORD!" Dear Lord, Today we give you this battle. We know that you love Dad even more than we do. We know that he is your son and as his Father you desire to give him good gifts. We thank you that you are in control of this and that you already know the outcome. Give us strength to continue, and build our faith so that we can bring you honour and glory through this. AMEN! ~Joy
*** remember some info in this is more general because a blog is more public then the Carepages... if you want to check out carepages.com and become a member or email either of us that works too!
Amy
January 04, 2007 at 12:10 AM EST
Another busy day is drawing to a close. I guess you could say that today was a good day. Compared to the shock of yesterday today has seemed rather peaceful. Dad is doing as well as can be expected. He had quite a lot of awake time today and seems to be in excellent spirits. They had him sitting up on the edge of the bed this morning and attempted to have him stand up but this made his head rather "swimmy" so he was quickly tucked back into bed. He is experiencing alot of sweating and the nurses think it is a side affect of the medication in his epidural. The incision and colostomy appear to be healing well so all is looking good so far. We have all been overwhelmed and humbled by the many offers made by all of you regarding any type of help we may need. It is so wonderful to see the family of God surrounding our family in such a loving and compassionate way. As of right now we have no immediate needs (what a wonderful blessing that is!) and trust me when I say we're not trying to be heros and "doing it all ourselves". We're keeping things rather low key and simple and just focusing on eachother, Dad and of course God. The biggest need we forsee in the future will be needing people to drive Dad to Sunnybrook for his radiation treatments. The timing of this is unknown as it will depend on how fast he heals from this surgery. If you feel that is a way you could minister to dad please feel free to leave a message here and we will keep a list and let you know the dates as soon as WE know. Well, I guess that's about it for today. Thanks to all of you who dropped by the hospital to visit, I know it sure picks up Mom and Dad's spirits too. Several of you have asked how you can specifically pray for Dad so here's the list. - dad will be coming off the epidural either tomorrow or the next day. Pray that his pain will be minimized and that the narcotics given will be effective. - that he will be able to cough deeply to help clear his lungs and prevent pnemonia - that dad's body will be healed and completely restored to health. - that any kind of infection will be avoided especially with the colostomy In closing I'd like to ask for some prayer for me as well. I feel guilty that I'm "hijacking" this post but I sure would appreciate prayer. I'm trying to decided what the next week to week and a half looks like for me and my family. My heart wants to stay here with Mom and Dad and help to take care of things but in reality there are things that need to be taken care of back home in West Lorne. Please pray that I can make the right decisions as to what to do. Continue on in your prayers as this is the way that the Battle will truly be won..... remember.. "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. " Ephesians 6:12&13 Although Dad's battle appears to be a battle of the flesh (cancer) lets not forget that the battle is also spiritual. But, like the praise song says "In heavenly armor we'll enter the land, the battle belongs to the LORD!" Dear Lord, Today we give you this battle. We know that you love Dad even more than we do. We know that he is your son and as his Father you desire to give him good gifts. We thank you that you are in control of this and that you already know the outcome. Give us strength to continue, and build our faith so that we can bring you honour and glory through this. AMEN! ~Joy
Wednesday, January 3, 2007
Update on Dad/Ryk/Opa G
Well, I thought this might be the easiest. My sister has also set up a carepage but I know that a lot of people also use this kinda stuff as well, so I thought that I would start a blog too for dad and how he is doing and what's happening... it will more or less for exactly the same as the carepage just so people that use different things can still get the updates... so here you go... this first one is longer than they will usually be but it's more or less what I emailed everyone for day 1! Also the carepages have a place that you can leave a personal message for one of us where are this one will have names and places and some dates taken out as it's a little more public.
Thanks for your prayers! They are greatly appreciated. As for when we might head east... we're not sure at this point in time. Mom has said to wait and see. So, that's what we're going to do for now!
Amy
January 02, 2007 at 11:28 PM EST
Hi Everyone! We're hoping that this site will serve to help keep all of our friends and family informed as quickly as possible on how Dad is doing. I'll just give a small bit of a time line so that you can understand how quickly everything has moved. Dad's colonoscopy wasn't scheduled until May 2007 at the hospital. Thank God Linda suggested going to another smaller centre. Dad's colonoscopy took place. and Dad met with the surgeon and found out that he had colon cancer. His surgery was then schedueled for Tuesday January 2, 2007. In those 2 weeks it was an absolute whirl wind filled with doctors appointments, pre - op visits, and of course Christmas and New Years thrown in for good measure. Phew! So now that brings us to today. Dad was scheduled to go into surgery at 7:30am and we expected to see him in his room somewhere between 11:30-12 noon. Mom, Dan and I spent the time sitting in the food court attempting a crossword puzzle to try and keep our minds off things. At 10:30 the pager that the OR had given us went off (scaring the day lights out of me as i was wearing it) We waited until around 11:20 and the doctor came to speak to us. Going into the surgery we had expected for dad to have a 6 inch section of his colon removed and an Anterior Resection (colon re-attached with tumour gone). Unfortunately the doctor was not able to perform this surgery. There is some adhesion to the anterior wall of the pelvis. He is also wondering if there may be some adhession to the bladder. He feels confident that it has not entered the bladder as dad has not had any symptoms so that is a HUGE praise! Also he thuroughly examined his liver and says it looks great! The liver is a huge concern where colon cancer is concerned so this is another YEAH GOD! The surgeon felt that performing a colostomy was a prudent move right now. This way the healthy part of his colon will be kept far away from the radiation. The next 4 months will be very full, here is a rough itinerary of what will be happening: - 7-10 days in the hospital - 4-6 weeks healing at home - 5 weeks of Radiation not in town ( i will be writing more about this later so stay tuned!) - at the same time as the radiation 5 weeks of chemotherapy administered in town - 4-6 weeks recovery time as the radiation continues to work for up to a month after the last dose - surgery to hopefully remove the shrunken tumour and to resect (reattach) the colon. So, this is where we stand. I'm hoping that Amy or myself can update the webpage daily so as to keep you all informed. As you can well imagine there have been countless phonecalls and prayers for which we are so thankful!! If we haven't been able to return your call we apologize but as you're well aware life is pretty hectic and we aren't at home too much. We're hoping that this site will work well to keep you informed and kept in the loop and so that you'll know to to pray. God is so good, Dad has peace and that is a true answer to prayer. He says that he can feel your prayers and he knows the power of them being offered up to the on his behalf. Continue on in your prayers. Remeber, the prayers of the righteous availeth much! God is going to have the glory in this situation! AMEN! Please feel free to leave a message for Dad and Mom on the message board. I know they would so appreciate it! Also a little request, if anyone will be visiting them could you please copy and paste and print out a copy of the messages so that they could read them. Dad and mom haven't quite jumped into the computer age yet and I don't have a printer available to me at their house.
~Joy on behalf of Dad, Mom, Dan and kids, Amy& Jared
January 03, 2007 at 10:53 AM EST
Hi Everyone! Time seems to fly so quickly. I spoke with Dad's night nurse first thing this morning and she said that he had a good night. I was able to speak with dad later on and he sounds weak. He said that the nurses had him sitting up this morning and that it didn't feel so good. Mom and I are heading up to the hospital shortly. Dad's a bit out of it but I'm sure mom would appreciate the visits. A family from the church has kindly offered to keep my kids the rest of the week and the kids are thrilled. What a brave woman to have 7 kids around! Continue on in your prayers. I know that they are felt tremendously here. The strength of Dad and Mom through this is amazing and I believe it is your prayers holding them. If you know anyone who knows mom and dad PLEASE pass on the carepage so that we can keep everyone informed. Also, we will be leaving a green notebook up at dad's hospital room as well. PLEASE sign it when you visit, especially if mom or I aren't there..who knows what dad will remember right now :D
On behalf of the Opa G clan
Joy
God Bless you all, and thank you for your prayers.
Thanks for your prayers! They are greatly appreciated. As for when we might head east... we're not sure at this point in time. Mom has said to wait and see. So, that's what we're going to do for now!
Amy
January 02, 2007 at 11:28 PM EST
Hi Everyone! We're hoping that this site will serve to help keep all of our friends and family informed as quickly as possible on how Dad is doing. I'll just give a small bit of a time line so that you can understand how quickly everything has moved. Dad's colonoscopy wasn't scheduled until May 2007 at the hospital. Thank God Linda suggested going to another smaller centre. Dad's colonoscopy took place. and Dad met with the surgeon and found out that he had colon cancer. His surgery was then schedueled for Tuesday January 2, 2007. In those 2 weeks it was an absolute whirl wind filled with doctors appointments, pre - op visits, and of course Christmas and New Years thrown in for good measure. Phew! So now that brings us to today. Dad was scheduled to go into surgery at 7:30am and we expected to see him in his room somewhere between 11:30-12 noon. Mom, Dan and I spent the time sitting in the food court attempting a crossword puzzle to try and keep our minds off things. At 10:30 the pager that the OR had given us went off (scaring the day lights out of me as i was wearing it) We waited until around 11:20 and the doctor came to speak to us. Going into the surgery we had expected for dad to have a 6 inch section of his colon removed and an Anterior Resection (colon re-attached with tumour gone). Unfortunately the doctor was not able to perform this surgery. There is some adhesion to the anterior wall of the pelvis. He is also wondering if there may be some adhession to the bladder. He feels confident that it has not entered the bladder as dad has not had any symptoms so that is a HUGE praise! Also he thuroughly examined his liver and says it looks great! The liver is a huge concern where colon cancer is concerned so this is another YEAH GOD! The surgeon felt that performing a colostomy was a prudent move right now. This way the healthy part of his colon will be kept far away from the radiation. The next 4 months will be very full, here is a rough itinerary of what will be happening: - 7-10 days in the hospital - 4-6 weeks healing at home - 5 weeks of Radiation not in town ( i will be writing more about this later so stay tuned!) - at the same time as the radiation 5 weeks of chemotherapy administered in town - 4-6 weeks recovery time as the radiation continues to work for up to a month after the last dose - surgery to hopefully remove the shrunken tumour and to resect (reattach) the colon. So, this is where we stand. I'm hoping that Amy or myself can update the webpage daily so as to keep you all informed. As you can well imagine there have been countless phonecalls and prayers for which we are so thankful!! If we haven't been able to return your call we apologize but as you're well aware life is pretty hectic and we aren't at home too much. We're hoping that this site will work well to keep you informed and kept in the loop and so that you'll know to to pray. God is so good, Dad has peace and that is a true answer to prayer. He says that he can feel your prayers and he knows the power of them being offered up to the on his behalf. Continue on in your prayers. Remeber, the prayers of the righteous availeth much! God is going to have the glory in this situation! AMEN! Please feel free to leave a message for Dad and Mom on the message board. I know they would so appreciate it! Also a little request, if anyone will be visiting them could you please copy and paste and print out a copy of the messages so that they could read them. Dad and mom haven't quite jumped into the computer age yet and I don't have a printer available to me at their house.
~Joy on behalf of Dad, Mom, Dan and kids, Amy& Jared
January 03, 2007 at 10:53 AM EST
Hi Everyone! Time seems to fly so quickly. I spoke with Dad's night nurse first thing this morning and she said that he had a good night. I was able to speak with dad later on and he sounds weak. He said that the nurses had him sitting up this morning and that it didn't feel so good. Mom and I are heading up to the hospital shortly. Dad's a bit out of it but I'm sure mom would appreciate the visits. A family from the church has kindly offered to keep my kids the rest of the week and the kids are thrilled. What a brave woman to have 7 kids around! Continue on in your prayers. I know that they are felt tremendously here. The strength of Dad and Mom through this is amazing and I believe it is your prayers holding them. If you know anyone who knows mom and dad PLEASE pass on the carepage so that we can keep everyone informed. Also, we will be leaving a green notebook up at dad's hospital room as well. PLEASE sign it when you visit, especially if mom or I aren't there..who knows what dad will remember right now :D
On behalf of the Opa G clan
Joy
God Bless you all, and thank you for your prayers.
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